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Heartbreak

I dont feel bad about what I'm doing to him. But I do feel like shit about the other one, We been seeing each other for a while... I know what I'm doing isnt right but its something about him... I think I'm emotional ready for the other one, he gives me this feeling like cant nothing go wrong, like everything about that day just get better when I see him. I told it wasn't going to work jus beacause I know this isn't going to go no further than what it is. The sane "its cheaper to keep her" come in to place with his situation. I would love to be more to him and give him everything that I have to offer physically and emotionally. Thats not going to hapen, it would be a waste of time but I dont what it to be in the place where I actually do stop being selfish and give somebody my all an have all these plans in mind and for him to just up n leave; willing to make things work on his end at home. I would die, I know I want to cause he is a soft hearted careing easy to talk to loveable no what to say at the right time, but the only thing we cant talk is work... I think thats anybody....
I think I'm trippin??

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Save your breath because you only need two words to make him commit.
Are you REALLY thinking about their happiness?
If you keep finding yourself in heartbreaking, dead end relationships, listen up.
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