Did Mel Gibson Abuse Oksana Grigorieva?

Mel Gibson and Oksana Grigorieva

Mel Gibson & Oksana Grigorieva both filed restraining orders; Oksana alleges that Mel was abusive.

We just reported earlier today that Mel Gibson filed a restraining order against his estranged girlfriend Oksana Grigorieva. However, we're now learning that Mel's complaint came after Oksana filed a restraining order against him, allegedly because he was "extremely violent." The day after a judge prohibited him from having any contact with Oksana, Mel went to court to modify the order so that he could see the couple's daughter Lucia. That's when Mel issued a restraining order of his own, ostensibly to prevent Oksana from dishing any dirt on him. Mel Gibson Gets Restraining Order Against Babymama

A source close to Mel is accusing Oksana and of "crying wolf," because the alleged abuse took place in January, after which time Oksana didn't report the incident and continued her relationship with Mel. A source close to Oksana confirms that the abuse was limited to that particular time, but claims that "there were other acts after January that were not physical but still constituted domestic violence." Hmm. Perhaps he made her repeatedly watch the Lethal Weapon tetralogy?

Well, we won't know yet what this alleged abuse amounted to because the case is currently sealed and Oksana is only dribbling out bits and pieces of information. She spoke exclusively with RadarOnline this afternoon and, although she said she couldn't talk about the abuse claims, offered up this cryptic remark on Mel: "He's playing dirty. The truth will come out." Mel Gibson Makes Oksana Worship God His Way

Scoop: TMZ and RadarOnline. Photo: Axelle/Bauer-Griffin.