Here's what getting off is like for guys.
So what does a male orgasm feel like? Do orgasms differ drastically between the sexes? On our search to find out what exactly goes on in a man's head and body during sex, we first examined what we already know:
For starters, the male orgasm is significantly shorter, more intense and can, usually, only be experienced once during a single sex session. Women on the flip side, if properly stimulated, can pop out a series of orgasms with little recovery period.
Secondly, the male orgasm unleashes a rush of drowsy hormones — norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin, nictric oxide and the hormone prolactin — making it next to impossible for men not to feel sleepy after sex.
But what exactly does a male orgasm feel like, we wonder. To find out, we asked a few bona fide, penis-owning individuals if they could put it into words those seconds of orgasmic bliss.
What we found? The question was downright hard. Asking men to explain the male orgasm was akin to having them describe the color orange. Regardless, we managed to cull a few truths.
1. The brain shuts off, and then a moment of clarity arises.
Andrew, a 30-year-old computer programmer said that during sex he's in a trance-like, robotic state. While he's physically there, his mind wanders into deep horny forests, that if asked about, are just as ephemeral and hard to explain as the orgasm itself, but after he comes?
"Everything makes sense for a split second," he said. "Like I'm seeing things clearly for the first time. That to me is the most powerful thing about orgasm, the moments afterward."
2. The intensity varies depending on how long he holds out.
Paul, a 23-year-old actor says his most intense and earth shattering climaxes happen after he's reached the edge and held out a few times.
"There's a differences between just letting loose when you first feel the urge and challenging yourself to hold out." he said. "I'm a million times more exhausted after I've stopped and kept going."
3. It's feeling of passing "energy."
"I feel like I'm passing the core of my soul to someone," he said. When we thought he couldn't be serious, he concluded, "Not to be cheesy, but its like sharing your energy with somebody. Being so close to someone during a very vulnerable period."
4. Women's are indeed longer — and possibly better.
Wes, a 26-year-old advertising copywriter, reiterates the already known fact that the male orgasm is inherently shorter than a female's. It also doesn't seem to be quite as euphoric.
"My girlfriend seems to experience her orgasm in lingering waves," he said. "Ours isn't like that. We have a very intense three- to five-second burst, if that, and then our entire body goes numb. It feels good, but I get the feeling hers are better."