Negative Feelings.

So After a long search and dreadful let down dates and big dissapointments you finally find the ONE. Wow! You know the one that can make you look at your phone every minute, the one that has you dancing on clouds, the one you can see yourself with and plan a future with. Yes ,sir ,he is the one. Hes kind, loving, gentle, yet he knows how to take control. He is a true sweetheart and he IS all yours. Well, that IS what he says. I mean he said "I love you" He also said "You ARE the ONE for me". My Gosh you have the key to his house! driving his truck and you have your toothbrush in his bathroom! ok! maybe to fast... You must slow down...Your mind tells you, but your heart tells you different.  Not even three months and all this is is all too real.
How do you slow down? Or how do I keep it going? is it real? Is he really the one? Am I just another girlfriend? Is he really serious?
Well, I guess this is where all this negative feelings come in, and I have found out that this negative feelings are and will poison to a good relationship. these questions or doubts are normal to point. But when they become a constant question and you have doubts all the time, they become poison to your mind and can and will take over your heart. these feelings can blind you and crreate frustration and tension if  no answers are given to you.
Many of us have question a good thing. but I found out is because of all the jerks in our past. and when we finally find a good thing that is EVERYTHING we have hoped for we question it. Ironic is so true. I have so many girlfrinds that have done this. and YES they have scared their guys away.
Ok, so the fact that our past has a way to hunt us down and remaind us of the last horrible guy we were with, that doesn give us the right to put this one good guy in that category. That does not give you the right to cheat your self out of happiness.
So how do we fix this negative thinking? well , luckly I have a great guy that has the patience to listen to my dumb and negative questions? and when I find my self insecure for what ever reason he holds me and remainds me that he loves me and only me. He kisses me and holds me till am ok.
Dont get me wrong he has put me in my place few times, by letting me know that a guy does get tired of being questioned. and that is when I realized that the only person who had doubts about us  has been me, and I need it to let go of all those negative feelings that one day will couse more harm than good.
I took a good look at myself and begain to see the great qualities in me. I had to remind myself that HE too was the lucky one by having some one like me. I am unique. I have a great heart and I am me.
I just realized that we ladies forget who we are.  that this great guy likes me and even loves me, yet we question them till we become NOT the right girl.
So be positive I say, and enjoy the one your with. You'll just never know how long you'll have him for...so love him, respect him and be the great person he fell in love with to begin with.YOU.