How To Sweet Talk Like A Pro

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13 ways to compliment a woman.

7. Fun, Fun, Fun: Let her know she is the life of the party. Whatever you're doing is at its maximum fun-ness thanks to her.

8. Spoon: If you always hold her when you go to sleep, she'll soften like butter. Your reward will be more morning sex.

9. Outfitted: Always compliment what she's wearing. This won't just make her feel pretty in the moment, it'll also help her know what you have an eye for and that you appreciate the way she conveys her personal style.

10. Laugh Factory: If you find her jokes funny, and you laugh along at the right parts, she'll know you get her sense of humor. That's a sexy meeting of the minds.

11. Be Chivalrous: Simple gestures show a gal that you want to give her your all. Sure, these moves might just be a façade when you first start dating, but deep down inside, she'll know you're considerate, well-mannered, and want to treat her right.

12. Thinking Of You: OK, so, I'm gonna perv out a little, amongst all these sweet-nothings. I have to say the highest compliment I've ever been paid is when an old BF of mine told me, while we were dating, that he couldn't get enough of me and even jerked off to the thought of me. Hotness!

13. Get Personal: Make a list of a few specific things you love about her. Memorize them. Then tell her them naturally, without acknowledging you ever wrote out this list. All those personalized acknowledgments will make her feel more than loved; she'll feel understood. Just be weary of backhanded compliments like, "Before I met you, I just dated women for their looks. But I like you because you're smart." Compliment FAIL.

Written by Simcha Whitehill for The Frisky

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