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I have been seeing this guy for 7 months and we work together so we have to stay low key about us. we finally decieded to get in a relationship together and i saw him leaving his place with a girl. he has lots and lots of female friends and says i need to be more understanding. before we got together he wasn't exactly the Moral Police... so i have issues trusting him... so we broke up because he said he is scared that i am going to hurt him because he cares about me so much but i don't trust him! i think he is seeing some one else, but i am not sure.....


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