is he a complicated man or is it jus me


i have been living with my babysfather for four years now we have two kids together one five years old and another one on the waty, i know this may sound stupid but i love him . anyways whenever he sees interested in some one else he alway compare them with me. either my hair is not done right or i need to lose more weight and go to the gym or i need to go to school. everytime i ask him about these woman he says they r just friend. even at times he will tell me i dont stimilate is mind cause i cant hold a conversation or i dont talk to him at all.thats the only way i can tell when he finds another woman to hung out with now this time around he wants me to still be in a relationship with him while he sees this other person on the side who makes him more motivated to do things good in his life and i should compete with that. its even more complicated than that but i just want to know if i change for this man will he love me more or just find something more to change in me. i need to know if i should just call it quits even thought we have kids together or try to make it work on his level.


Expert advice

Save your breath because you only need two words to make him commit.
Are you REALLY thinking about their happiness?
If you keep finding yourself in heartbreaking, dead end relationships, listen up.
It seems like you can't do anything right.