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When Should I "Break Up" With A Bad Friend?
When Should I "Break Up" With A Bad Friend?

When Should I "Break Up" With A Bad Friend?

How to know it's time to finally end your toxic friendship.

Although you and your BFF have been friends for what seems like forever, you can't help but notice that she's been bringing you down lately. She's unsupportive of you and your life choices, unnecessarily mean or hurtful, and is no longer giving you the kind of friendship that you want. So, how do you "break up" with her? 12 Types Of Friends You Should Break Up With

My Husband Was Addicted To Porn; What If He Relapses?
My Husband Was Addicted To Porn; What If He Relapses?

My Husband Was Addicted To Porn; What If He Relapses?

Can a person ever fully recover from a sex or porn addiction?

In this video, Relationship Expert and YourTango Expert Janie Lacy helps a reader whose husband struggled with an addiction to porn and sex in the past. Now that he's recovered, she's nervous that one day he may resort back to his old habits. She's also concerned that this addiction will be passed down to their son. 5 Excuses A Man Will Give For Watching Porn

How Do I Stop Holding A Grudge About Everything?
How Do I Stop Holding A Grudge About Everything?

How Do I Stop Holding A Grudge About Everything?

How to move above and beyond past wrongdoings.

When someone hurts you or offends you in some way, do you have a hard time letting it go? Do you hold grudges against these people for a long time, even though you'd just like to move on? How Do I Avoid Making The Same Mistakes In New Relationships? In this video, Therapist, Author and YourTango Expert Dr. Bonnie Weil helps a reader who has the tendency of holding such grudges against anyone who has ever hurt her. She says it affects everything she does and she doesn't want it to ruin her new relationship.

How Do I Avoid Making The Same Mistakes In New Relationships?
How Do I Avoid Making The Same Mistakes In New Relationships?

How Do I Avoid Making The Same Mistakes In New Relationships?

How to stop repeating harmful relationship patterns with someone new.

After a breakup or divorce, it's exciting to think of starting a new relationship with a blank slate. The next person you date won't be aware of the mistakes you've made in the past. However, that doesn't mean these problems can't come up again. So, how do you ensure you don't repeat any harmful relationship patterns? 10 Unhealthy Relationship Patterns (And How To Break Them!)

Where Do I Find All Of The Good Men? (3 of 3)
Where Do I Find All Of The Good Men? (3 of 3)

Where Do I Find All Of The Good Men? (3 of 3)

When out looking for dates, where should you go to find 'relationship material' men?

In part one of this video series, we met Rebecca, a 41-year-old woman who is looking to get back in the dating scene after taking 17 years off to focus on raising her daughter. She shared her struggles with getting back into dating and admitted that she would like to get married in the next four years. 

How Can I Tell If A Guy Is Relationship Material? (2 Of 3)
How Can I Tell If A Guy Is Relationship Material? (2 Of 3)

How Can I Tell If A Guy Is Relationship Material? (2 Of 3)

An expert helps determine the key qualities to look for in a potential partner.

In part one of this video series, we met Rebecca, a 41-year-old woman who is looking to get back in the dating scene after taking 17 years off to focus on raising her daughter. She shared her struggles with getting back into dating and admitted that she would like to get married in the next four years. How Do I Start Dating Again After 17 Years? (1 of 3)

How Do I Start Dating Again After A 17 Year Break? (1 of 3)
How Do I Start Dating Again After A 17 Year Break? (1 of 3)

How Do I Start Dating Again After 17 Years? (1 of 3)

How to get yourself back in the game when you've been single for a long time.

Getting back into the dating scene can feel a little intimidating, especially if you haven't even tried seeing someone for almost 20 years! So, what can you do to get back in the game confidently? How Do I Start Dating Again After A Long Break? In this video, Dating & Relationship Expert and YourTango Expert Lori Pinkerton helps Rebecca, a 41-year-old woman who hasn't dated for the past 17 years.

Why Is Valentine's Day Always Such A Letdown?
Why Is Valentine's Day Always Such A Letdown?

Why Is Valentine's Day Always Such A Letdown?

How to have a Happy Valentine's Day and avoid the disappointment!

Happy Valentine's Day! Today is the day when couples celebrate the love they share for one another. It's a huge national holiday, and there are a lot of expectations riding on February 14 – what gift to give your partner, where to have a romantic dinner, what to do after dinner... Often with so many plans and hopes, the reality of Valentine's Day often doesn't live up to the hype. How do you avoid that? "How I Stopped Hating Valentine's Day"