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“Doing It” With A Hernia

“Doing It” With A Hernia

Should a disability end their sex life? How to overcome health issues and keep physical intimacy.

Question: We are struggling in our sex life, due to sickness. My husband has developed two hernias. The one in his tummy he has had for years, but the one in his groin is newer and starting to cause him pain, including during sex.  Do you have any advice to help us cope and stay connected sexually.  We are both still very attracted to each other, but his hernia is causing him pain.  I know the quick fix is to repair his hernia, but we are currently without insurance.  Kind of an extra question to you:

Field Guide to Chicks of the United States

Field Guide to Chicks of the United States

Field Guide to Chicks of the United States by Joe Bovino, is quite the witty practical guide for men

Field Guide to Chicks of the United States by Joe Bovino, is quite the witty practical guide for men who are looking for a specific type of woman.  It feels cartoonlike in nature and gives a lot of interesting information that could really be a help to many men out there.  Yes, it does break women down categorically, however I must say if you know any of these type of women, it is quite funny and accurate.  Warning: you must have a sense of humor to read this and not take it overly seriously.  The author admits in the beginning that “It’s undoub

8 Most Desirable Qualities In Women ... According To Men [EXPERT]
Do you have all eight?

8 Most Desirable Qualities In Women ... According To Men

If you're single and searching for the man of your dreams, all you need are these eight traits!

Below are just a few of the most desired traits that men look for in the women they want to be with for life.

10 Dating Mistakes Men Make When They're Interested In  A Woman

10 Dating Mistakes Men Make When They're Interested In A Woman

Want to win her heart? Here are 10 things to avoid like a social disease.

Dating is a crazy business.  It often involves putting oneself in the awkward position of having to make meaningful and engaging conversation with a virtual stranger while trying to assess if future encounters will be emotionally/physically/spiritually satisfying on any level.  And you usually have to do this over dinner or drinks while trying desperately not to say something totally embarrassing or spray your date in the eye with lemon juice meant for your salmon, ice tea or Corona.  Of course you know the things you try to avoid to keep a date running smoothly (

The 3 Things Men Are Looking For In A Relationship

The 3 Things Men Are Looking For In A Relationship

The way to a man's heart isn't complicated. Fulfill these 3 needs, and he'll be yours long-term.

Women frequently ask me what guys are looking for in their relationships with the women in their lives. And although they may realize how uncomplicated guys are, they are still usually surprised by the simplicity of my answer. In general, men are looking for three things when they become involved romantically with a woman: 1) Sex 2) Comfort 3) Companionship

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Is the recession making our lipstick habit worse?

"Lipstick Effect": Does The Recession Make Women More Attractive?

A new study claims women buy more beauty products when the economy is down.

The recession is still hitting us hard four years later and in the United States particularly, we’ve already changed the way we as women shop, splurge, and save money. But besides affecting our wallets, do these hard economic times have us desperate for a relationship as well?

He's Started Saying "No" To Blowjobs

He's Started Saying "No" To Blowjobs

Why would any man say no to oral sex? Find out why he's putting the brakes on blowjobs.

In response to a previous column, I received the following letter, which I would like to share with my readers. Question: My question is very personal, but I read your blog and found it interesting. My husband, believe it or not, says he has to be in the mood for oral sex especially when I want to do it to him. Is this odd? Do you think I am doing something wrong? I want to please him, and I personally enjoy it. Any advice you can give I would appreciate.  ...Allison

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Reason #8: You do stuff for us. Who does stuff for YOU?

10 Ways Girls Have It Better Than Guys

There are some ways in which our lives are just a little sweeter than theirs.

My mom just dropped me a gchat to ask about my day (we do that), and when I explained to her that I was in the process of hammering out why women are better than men, she aptly responded with, "Hope there's not a word limit."

5 Ways Sandra Fluke's DNC Speech Made History For Women
Sandra Fluke wiped the floor with Rush Limbaugh and his misinformed, misogynist kind.

5 Ways Sandra Fluke's DNC Speech Made History For Women

Powerful quotes and video from the Georgetown Law student's Democratic National Convention speech.

If only I could give Sandra Fluke a high-five right now! As a fellow American woman, I've been fuming over the incredibly disrespectful, ignorant, and downright detestable comments Rush Limbaugh made about the Georgetown Law University student since that oafish blowhard called her a "slut" on the air back in February (for daring to voice her opinion that universities should provide contraception coverage).

8 Ways To Know If He Thinks You're A MILF

8 Ways To Know If He Thinks You're A MILF

Is his flirtation harmless flattery? Or is he making plans to see you naked?

Question: I am a woman in my mid forties and I think a 26 year-old co-worker of my husband’s wants to have sex with me. How do I know for sure? What are the signs a man gives? ...Joy Answer: First let me say, that if you suspect that a man you know wants to have sex with you, chances are you're right.

 Things I Wish I Had Known About Being Female & Single.

Things I Wish I Had Known About Being Female & Single.

If I knew then what I know now I'd do a lot of things differently. Maybe you can learn from it.

      I wish I had known how spectacular females are, and then honored myself as one among them. Males love the company of females. The most important thing in a relationship is that HE really gets YOU and vice versa. Really getting someone requires only that each person pay close attention and listen deeply. Finding someone who really understands you, is like finding a gem in the ocean.