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Being the Best Sex He's Had Isn't About What You Do In Bed

Being the Best Sex He's Had Isn't About What You Do In Bed

If you want that man constantly thinkin' about how sexy you are, be the best tease he's ever known!

If you want to seduce your man, enchant him with your sexuality, and just downright be the best sex he's ever had, you gotta have two very important character traits: a silly spirit and a crude mind! My man and I have an amazing sex life, but I would be lying to you if I said that my magic spell over him was cast under the sheets. The way that I have made him a self-proclaimed addict who is hooked on our physical intimacy has everything to do with how I enchant him outside the bedroom. It has everything to do with how I tease him!

Why Do Guys Love Blow Jobs? [EXPERT]
Are you willing to treat your man like a lollipop?

Why Do Guys Love Blow Jobs? [EXPERT]

5 reasons why men can't resist oral sex.

Men are wild about getting their whistles blown. There are quite a few reasons for this. Here are just a few.

8 Types Of V's Men Love & Embrace
You'll make sparks fly in the bedroom regardless of what type of V you might have.

8 Types Of V's Men Love & Embrace

Here is the lowdown on vaginas... from a man's perspective.

After speaking with a handful of twenty-something year old men and consulting with blogs of the male perspective, we've been able to derive the top vaginas seen and discussed amongst men. Here are the eight most common types of vaginas that men can't stop talking about.

Women and Sex Addiction

Women and Sex Addiction

How do you know if you are a healthy sexual woman or a love or sex addict? Where is the line?

Is there a line one crosses from healthy sexuality to sex addiction? If there is, where is the line. These questions are being asked by many people as more celebrities, elected officials, and religious leaders have claimed they are addicted to sex, and are seeking treatment.  Is sex addiction just a excuse for the rich and famous to hide behind, or is there something to it?

Porn for Women

Porn for Women

They're out there...tips on where to find them.

Doug Does Dallas? Porn is not just for men anymore A few years back, erotic literature took romance bookshelves by storm, with staggering sales for women who wanted an extra helping of sensuality in their stories. But today, many women are taking things to the next level, tuning into adult films made with a female audience in mind.

How to Roll Your Guys Eyes Back in His Eye Sockets, Every Time.

How to Roll Your Guys Eyes Back in His Eye Sockets, Every Time.

A departure from the usual, this is Racy, Naughty, and very, very X-Rated!

Okay, so now that I have your attention ladies, I need to inform you that this article may get a bit, shall we say “racy?” If you’re good with that please, continue reading. If not, well, okay then! In this article I’ll be discussing passion, I’ll be discussing control; I’ll be discussing confidence, erotica, guile, and I’ll be discussing a way to surprise your man and knock his socks off in a way that he will never forget. So what will that accomplish?

Should Women Talk Trash During Sex? [EXPERT]

Should Women Talk Trash During Sex? [EXPERT]

Turn around in doggy style and tell him to grab your hair and spank your ass.

Hell yes! Believe it or not, the woman is in control and it is she who dictates the energy. It’s unbelievable, but it is true! Understanding this fact and learning how to use it to your advantage can dramatically improve your sex life and your partner’s sexual enjoyment. A woman can make a man feel like King Kong or ding dong depending on what she says to him in bed. Why do you think men go to strip clubs? Strippers have perfected the art of telling men what they want to hear.

Sex, Shame & Sandra Fluke [EXPERT]
Learn from Sandra Fluke and avoid feeling the shame that many women feel.

Sex, Shame & Sandra Fluke [EXPERT]

Speak up and unleash the full potential of the sensual, spiritual woman within you!

If you’ve been following the news, you’ve heard of Sandra Fluke, the Georgetown law student who testified before Democratic members of the House of Representatives on why she believed free contraception is essential. She got a beat down of a lashing from Rush Limbaugh who called her a slut and compared her to a prostitute. Rush sent out a public apology after his rant caused him to lose several sponsors for his radio show. This story represents on a large scale the deep wound of shame that so many feel when they speak up. Shame is the feeling that “something is wrong with me.” Shame pops up in three main areas for women: in speaking up and using our voice, in feeling comfortable with our bodies and our sensuality and in the way we mother and raise our children.

What Men REALLY Think About Lingerie!

What Men REALLY Think About Lingerie!

Lingerie isn't about looking sexy, it's about making you feel sexual!

We all know that a man appreciates when you get all gussied up for him and whet his appetite in something short and lacy, but when we shop for something that looks good for his eyes, we sometimes don't think about how WE feel wearing it. We don't don't think about how it affects us emotionally when we wear that item.

 22 Gifts That Say "I Love You Baby" Without Breaking the Bank

22 Gifts That Say "I Love You Baby" Without Breaking the Bank

Our top choices for gifts under $25 or free that will say " I love you baby".

Searching for the perfect gift for your man, but on a tight budget? No worries – here at How to Get the Man of Your Dreams.com, we surveyed our team of Relationship Coaches, who are all male, for gifts they’d love to receive - that cost little to no money. With a little creativity and effort, you can create a lasting impression on the man of your dreams.

7 Positions to Sleep in that Will Excite the Man of Your Dreams

7 Positions to Sleep in that Will Excite the Man of Your Dreams

Positions that are sure to have your man wanting nothing more than to be between the sheets with you

  Body language reveals our true feelings, and your relationship partner has no trouble with picking up on this physical queue. But what does your body language say while you are sleep? Are there sleeping positions that will excite the man of your dreams? In sleep, we are our most honest, vulnerable selves and certain sleep positions can immediately evoke sensual thoughts and pleasures.