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Porn
Does too much porn make men unresponsive to real sex?

What Guys Think Links: Does Porn Make Men Dumb?

Plus, how to keep him from cheating.

How to keep (most) guys from cheating. How to make dirty talk not awful. Some info about Cinco de Mayo. What first-date faux pas should women cut out, dudes? Porn can lead to un-horniness? Love advice from Lou Ferrigno. Clingy men. Men are more interested in cuddling than ladies. Guys shouldn't call everyone "bro."

basketball
Ready to deal with your guy's basketball obsession?

What Guys Think Links: Ready For March Madness?

Plus, seven questions to ask before you talk commitment.

It's less than a week to the world's greatest and most romantic holiday: St. Patrick's Day. The beer is green, the corned beef is hashed and the eyes are smiling. Ahhh, thanks for chasing out all them snakes, Pat. Not to mention... It's time to make your March Madness bracket, or ignore your guy for doing so.

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Brohunting.com: Your guide to catching (but probably not keeping) a total bro.

What Guys Think Links: How To Catch A Bro

Also, 7 ways to survive a blind date.

How does a guy get out of the friend zone? The demise and lingering death of the porn store. She's uncomfortable about receiving oral sex. Men do these five things and we're sorry. How to survive a blind date. Are you using him or is he using you? What do men do after a painful breakup? Be careful what you write when you're going through a divorce. Four signs he's really into you. And, DO NOT got chasing waterfalls.

man alone road
What's it like out there for a solo guy?

What Guys Think Links: Do Men Really Hate Being Alone?

Also, how to transition from texting to actually dating.

The ten rules of double dating. How a guy should take dating to the next level. What would guys do if they were chicks for a day. Are shy guys actually afraid of women? Does a guy really fear ruining a relationship by making it physical? What if he's unemployed and she's got a killer job? Do men really, really hate being alone?

Friday The 13th
It's Friday the 13th.

13 "What Guys Think Links" For Friday The 13th

How important is a first kiss? Do men settle? And more, straight from the minds of men.

The perfect first kiss, made easy. He wants her to think it's just a booty call situation, but he has real feelings. How do you know if your guy is settling for you? Will a guy ALWAYS ask out a chick he digs? Do guys like to watch porn solo or with a partner? A product that will make Skype sex WAY more interesting. The practicality of long-distance relationships. Do NOT see Blue Valentine on date night. What to think about the final resting place of male reproductive fluid. Jay-Z is not a role model for your love life.

she's weird
There's a guy who's probably into this look.

What Guys Think Links: He Loves Your Flaws

Plus, what ALL the straight people are doing.

And a happy new year to you, sirs and madams. I hope you haven't dropped your resolutions into a vat of acid and cried yourself to sleep over lost dreams. Because it would be a little awkward if we both did that. Here is what the "other guys" have had to say about loving, dating, doing it and all that stuff.

wedding
Cosmo has some tips on what to do if you want to walk down the aisle. But do we agree?

What Guys Think Links: 10 Steps To Becoming "Wife Material"

Plus, what if your guy hates your friends?

When he loathes your friends. When a lady gets caught in the friend zone. What do guys look for in a wife? He talks about his guilty pleasures. Going to your ex-wife's wedding AND loving it. Some of the web's worst sex advice. And why the orgasm should be a result not a goal, per se.

a good man
Even a good man has a hard time dating. Even John Goodman.

What Guys Think Links: Where Are All The Nice Single Guys?

They're out there, ladies.

There are some good men out there. Believe that, shawty. More man-myths SHATTERED. One-night stands can very easily result in relationships. How to figure out a guy's relationship intentions. Why do men disappear? Why do dudes like girl-on-girl sexy action so much? When can you date a friend's ex with impunity? Things you can do this 11/11/11 (on a date). A man loves food, sometimes more than sex.

schweddy balls

What Guys Think Links: Bring Back Schweddy Balls!

Plus, why you need a spouse who can handle the zombie apocalypse.

Wow. Crazy days in world news. Gaddafi (pick your spelling) was killed, making his nurses very sad. Obama announced a most-of-the-way pullout from Iraq in two months. And Sammi and Ronnie are dunzo (for now). Finally, Schweddy Balls, our favorite Ben & Jerry's ice cream flavor, is being boycotted in some stores because of its "vulgar" name. Take a deep breath and look at what men are thinking this week about sex, love, sex, relationships and sex.

kissing a guy

What Guys Think Links: Are There Degrees Of Cheating?

Plus, what completely undateable men can teach us all.

A parachuting porn. Is it really a big deal when guys watch porn? What we can learn from guys who are terrible with women. How to wallow in breakup pain without letting it devour you. Do you have to marry her to let her know you're committed? How to keep a fellow's interest. The grand spectrum of infidelity. Five role-playing scenarios that aren't completely cliche. A few FYIs for guys on getting things right in the bedroom. And a vibe that's powered by Google.

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What Guys Think Links: 6 Secrets About What Sex Means To Men

Plus, Mexico's new marriage contract law may save your relationship.

Mexico thinks a two-year contract could save marriage. How to survive any long-distance relationship. Super sexy stuff you can do that is NOT intercourse. Movies that will help you understand men, for real. 6 deep, dark secrets that show what men really think about sex. 11 great-sounding places for sex that actually are terrible and you should never try.