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Surprise him with something he'll love.

10 Awesome Valentines Day Gifts For Him

Stumped? YourTango's resident dude shares his picks for what guys really want for Valentines Day.

Guys don't want Valentine's Day gifts, right? Wrong. Presents are always nice. For budgets big, small and in-between we've got tons of fun stuff your dude could want this Valentine's Day.

6 Dating Lessons I Learned From "Always Hit On The Wingman"
"Always Hit On The Wingman," ladies. It's a life-changing book.

6 Secret Rules For Getting The Love Life You Want

Love lessons from "Always Hit On The Wingman," the new must-read from Glamour magazine's "Jake."

Every month, I always enjoy reading Jake's column in Glamour magazine. Since 1956, it's been penned by a slew of anonymous, single men who've helped countless women navigate the dating world by writing honestly and openly about the game of love from a man's perspective. One of the more recent Jakes has written a book, "Always Hit On The Wingman: And 9 Other Secret Rules For Getting The Love Life You Want."

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It's hard to read men's minds -- but we can give it a good try.

10 Signs Your Guy Is Definitely In Love With You

If only we could peek into the minds of our boyfriends and see what they really think of us.

Sometimes, we simply have to guess at what our significant other is thinking, which can be particularly difficult at the start of a relationship when you're just getting to know each other.

Top 10 Things Men Can't Stand About Women
What do men hate about women?

Top 10 Things Men Can't Stand About Women

Mens' biggest dealbreakers when it comes to dating and women.

#1: I Can't Stand Someone Who Likes to Spend Excessive Time as a Couch Potato. There's nothing wrong with relaxing, but being in a relationship with a couch potato can get old fast. In fact, men are so wary of lazy women that it sneaks into the Top Ten list of Can't Stands.

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"Hmmm... Amanda..." *drool*

Study Says Men Get Dumber Just By Thinking About Women

Science has discovered that the mere mention of a woman's name can make a man dumber.

It's no secret that the male gender is a bunch of bumbling idiots when it comes to us ladies. Look at us! Our hips, our breasts, the way we smell, the softness of skin (which is completely natural and in no way attributed to mounds of moisturizer) and of course, just the fact that we are the fairer (read: superior) of the genders — we're the complete package.

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Try them all tonight and turn up the heat.

15 Tips To Spice Up Your Sex Life (From Men)

How to keep the sexy alive, whether you've been in a relationship for six months or 20 years.

It's hard, especially if you've been a long-term relationship or marriage, to keep the sexy alive. It's easy to fall into a rut when it comes to a romp in the bedroom -- we've all done it -- and harder than ever to come back out of the rut with some new sexy moves.

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It's Friday the 13th.

13 "What Guys Think Links" For Friday The 13th

How important is a first kiss? Do men settle? And more, straight from the minds of men.

The perfect first kiss, made easy. He wants her to think it's just a booty call situation, but he has real feelings. How do you know if your guy is settling for you? Will a guy ALWAYS ask out a chick he digs? Do guys like to watch porn solo or with a partner? A product that will make Skype sex WAY more interesting. The practicality of long-distance relationships. Do NOT see Blue Valentine on date night. What to think about the final resting place of male reproductive fluid. Jay-Z is not a role model for your love life.

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There's a guy who's probably into this look.

What Guys Think Links: He Loves Your Flaws

Plus, what ALL the straight people are doing.

And a happy new year to you, sirs and madams. I hope you haven't dropped your resolutions into a vat of acid and cried yourself to sleep over lost dreams. Because it would be a little awkward if we both did that. Here is what the "other guys" have had to say about loving, dating, doing it and all that stuff.

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What He's Really Thinking About During Sex

Ever wonder what a man's internal monologue sounds like while getting it on? Well, wonder no more.

Oh yeah, I’m about to have sex. What time is it? Big hand is on “LAID,” little hand is on “ME.” This is going to be awesome. Breath: minty! Pits: spicy! Boxers: fresh! Give her the Han Solo smirk. Squint, seductively. Remember that the eyes are like the mouths of the pants. Tell her what she needs to know just by looking at her: I’m about to let the dawgs of freaky push it, pu-push it real good. Buckle up, lucky lady, you’ve got a first class ticket on the rocket of love.

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10 things you wanted to know about love and sex in 2011...but were afraid to ask.

10 Things You Wanted To Know About Love & Sex In 2011 [GALLERY]

What did YourTango readers want to know about in 2011?

From "4 Signs You're More Than Friends" to "What A Male Orgasm Feels Like," the most popular LoveBuzz stories on our site in 2011 were all about what men think, what attracts men and how to get a man to commit.

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Sometimes his gift speaks louder than words.

12 Holiday Gifts & What They Say About Your Relationship

What his Christmas or Chanukah gift says about your relationship.

Asking yourself the eternal where-do-we-stand question? His Christmas/Chanukah gift can give you clues to how he feels about your relationship.