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Battle of the sexes: Turns out "sexy" means different things for men and women.

10 'Sexy' Moments That Men & Women Perceive Differently

Men and women see everything from romantic dinners to sexy clothing differently.

We all know men and women are different. Besides the obvious plumbing, they seem to speak a different language too. But it goes much further than that. When it comes to being sexy, both genders have unique views.

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Men worry about being too old to have children, just like women do.

'Manopause': 8 Signs Your Guy's Biological Clock Is Ticking

The clock is ticking and plenty of men, just like women, worry about putting off parenthood.

Back in August, The New York Times wrote about a study that bolsters the idea of a male biological clock. Turns out, mutations in older men's sperm may lead to a higher risk of autism and schizophrenia in offspring. The results of the study weren't definitive, but they are confirmation that all this talk about 40 being the new 30 is a bunch of hooey.

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Get an in-depth look at the intricate thought processes of the men in your life.

Check Out Our #WTFMenThink Twitter Party!

Tweet to celebrate the book release of "WTF Are Men Thinking?"

You no longer have to rely on guy-brain advice from your one close male friend (or, worse yet, your girlfriends and your mom). 250,000 men have spoken, and this book catalogs what they have to say!

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"Hey buddy, what's the Giants score?"

10 Reasons Men Get Married Even If They're Not In Love

A new study found that 25 percent of men will commit even if there's no love or attraction.

Just when you think the world is full of love and sunshine and rainbows, yet another study comes along and smacks you in the face to prove otherwise. Turns out that a lot of men don't enter into commitments like marriage out of a genuine bond toward a woman — they seem to do it just because. Let's explore, shall we?

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Do you lose your partner's attention during football season?

Love Or Sports: What's Your Guy's Football Season Priority?

When it comes down to it, he loves me more than his football team. Right?

My quasi-new boyfriend and I are currently preparing for a big relationship transition: We're moving out of the "honeymoon" phase and into the "football-season" phase.

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Could it be that he actually loves giving you flowers?

5 Signs That Most Men Are (Secretly) Hopeless Romantics

A male wedding columnist discovers that he's not the only hopeless romantic with a Y-chromosome.

Here's a poorly kept secret: Men are also from Venus. That's what I've learned after six years of writing for The New York Times wedding section—also known as the Ladies' Sports Pages.

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"Can we get it over with?" is something you should never say to a guy.

Love Bytes: 12 Things You Should Never Say To A Guy

Plus, 10 types of relationships that are doomed to fail.

Dudes like to hold court. A bridesmaid meets a DUI. 12 things not to tell a guy. What makes a man a good man? What if your best buds were cheating on each other? What's up with the prostate? Using technology to spice up your love life. Allergic to your boyfriend?

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Sometimes we overthink things.

10 Things Women Think Impress Men, But Don't

Don't do things to impress him, do you — that's what he'll find most impressive.

Like it or not, first impressions do matter. Second and third impressions do too — especially in the dating world. Admit it, you want to be wanted and liked by your suitor. We all do! No man or woman wants to be told they're not the best choice or the most favorable candidate for love. The trouble is that our desire to be liked often drives us to be someone other than ourselves.

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Trust us, ladies, he loves it when you bite your lip!

15 Quirky Things Men Find Attractive

How are we to really know what men find attractive? Thankfully, the Internet is here to help.

As much as we may hate to admit this, we ladies definitely do certain things to get a guy's attention. I mean, we may flip our hair when a cute guy walks by, lick our lips when we see him looking our direction — it's just human nature! The thing is, we're girls, but how are we to know what a guy's really thinking, how are we to know what guys ACTUALLY think is sexy?

July 30: Join @MensLifeToday & @YourTango's Twitter Party!
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July 30: Join @MensLifeToday & @YourTango's Twitter Party!

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