It may take some time but one day, the pain will fade.
If you've ever had the 'misfortune' of being cheated on, then you'll know that having your heart torn in half is the absolute worst. I don't think anything can prepare you for the moment where you find out that the person you thought you were going to be with forever suddenly changed his mind (and just like that, he's gone) — As if that promise to always have each other's backs and tough it out meant nothing (and all along, you've been dining at a table for one).
But do you know what the hardest part is? Feeling your heart just sink under the weight of those unanswered questions that keep you awake at night, forcing you to wonder about what you did that was so terrible that he had to leave or if there's something wrong with you. With these self-deprecating thoughts suffocating us and attacking at every single turn, how could we ever expect ourselves to move on? Feeling like part of you is missing, not to mention being unsure about whether the sense that you're never going to love again will ever go away, is seriously terrifying. But that doesn't mean the heartache will last forever.
In fact, there are so many videos around that can help you deal with the pain. Even though getting over the betrayal won't be easy, getting closure is the first step.
Whether it's by shedding some light on what really drives people to be unfaithful:
How social media plays a part in infidelity:
Figuring out how to forgive your partner even though the betrayal is still so fresh:
What to do when your insecurities from your old relationship affect your new one:
If you'll ever be able to trust him again:
And if cheating really is just inevitable:
The point is that there are a lot of ways that you can finally get the closure you need and move on. Can you relate to any of these videos? Let us know in the comments below.