smiling couple.
Be the change you want to see.

Can Your Outlook On Life Affect The Relationships You Make?

There's definitely some truth to the saying that our relationships, romantic and otherwise, define us. But how do we make sure that all of our relationships are healthy and not poisonous to us? Is it possible that there's more to Gandhi's famous words "Be the change you want to see" than we may have originally thought?

couple with grapes.
Understanding each other can spice up your relationship in more than one way.

Do Men And Women Really Think Differently About Sex?

Sure, men and women have different sexual parts but how different are they really when it comes to sex? Our Experts discuss libido, orgasms and just how the male and female brains really differ when it comes to sexuality.

nervous couple.
Are you really ready to take that next step?

Am I Really Ready For A Relationship?

Even though your palms are sweating and it's getting harder to speak, you've finally mustered up the courage to confront the cute guy that you've been crushing on for months. It's almost as if time stops for those first few seconds after you push your nerves aside and just tell him how you feel; and when he says that he feels the same, you can't help the smile that breaks. But even though you both seem to be on the same page, there's a difference between having the guts to be open about your feelings and actually being ready for a relationship.

couple born in bed.
Don't let your relationship hit the end of the line.

Has The Sex In Your Relationship Just Gone Bad?

When your once active love and sex life begin to take a turn for the worse, is there any way of saving your relationship? In this video, Relationship expert Matthew Walters is joined by YourTango marriage experts Esther Perel, Lesli Doares, Cynthia Chestnut and Elisabeth LaMotte to touch on the nitty gritty reasons why the feelings of love and intimacy shared between you and your partner sometimes change.

frustrated couple
Was proving your point worth the pain?

Is It Better To Be Right Or Happy?

Relationship coach Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil explores the role of fighting in a relationship and answers the age old questions - is it better to be right or happy? Watch the video to see what she has to say!

Sex Talk: Should I Stop Watching Porn For My Girlfriend [VIDEO]
You got caught. Again.

Honestly, Is Watching Porn Really A Big Deal?

Relationship coach Teresa Maples approaches the topic of porn in a relationship by explaining why a girlfriend may be upset with her boyfriends pornographic viewing habits. This type of sex talk is vital for all relationships so watch the video to see just how to handle this taboo topic.

Couples Counselor: What If Couples Therapy Isn't Working? [VIDEO]
She's there but she's not present.

Trouble In Paradise? What To Do When Therapy Just Isn't Working

Because couples therapy is such a great tool to help a couple work through their problems and stick together, we may assume that the therapist has some sort of special power that enables this transformation. Unfortunately, this is simply not the case. There are many different ways that we may sabotage our own therapy, maybe without even realizing it — until it's too late.

alice and timmy watching TV
I don't know, what do you want to watch?

Is This Favorite Pastime Ruining Your Relationship?

Alice and Timmy seem to have the perfect life BUT their TV habits and tastes are not in alignment. And it's tearing their relationship apart. Watch as these two lovable 1950s characters manage their DVR space, taste in programs and SPOILER alerts. Maybe TiVo can keep Alice and Timmy from getting a one-way ticket to Splitsville.