In the latest video episode of Ask YourTango—where readers seek out advice on love and relationships—sex expert Ian Kerner gives advice to a woman whose boyfriend doesn't give her enough foreplay. Ian shares one tip on how to get your man to to slow down in bed.
In the latest video episode of Ask YourTango—where readers seek out advice on love and relationships—sex expert Ian Kerner gives advice to a woman who is having trouble achieving an orgasm with her boyfriend. His number one tip? Relax! And remember that intercourse alone might not always bring you to the point of no return.
From marathon sex sessions to short and sweet quickies, sexual intercourse can pretty much last any amount of time. But how long does the average sex session take? The answer may surprise and disappoint you!
If you're like a ton of people, you've probably gone through sexual dry spells, lack of libido, periods of low sexual satisfaction, and other mojo-losing setbacks. But some sexual problems are so chronic that it's impossible to get your booty in gear without going to a sex therapist.
Sexual intercourse should be intimate and pleasurable, but many people who have had sex are unable to reach orgasm. Thankfully, anorgasmia is a common disorder that is also treatable. Here are medically proven ways that you can overcome this hurdle.
The key to having great sex (and an orgasm!) is communicating with your partner about your fantasies, thoughts and desires.
It's no secret that to have great sex, you have to be in the right mental mind zone. But being physically prepared plays a huge role in quality hanky-panky too.
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