Do you know exactly what kind of partner you're looking for? While it's almost always wise to know what you want, some experts insist that having a list of criteria for your future mate only sets you up for failure. After all, no one will ever meet every single standard ... or will they?
Let's face it. Sex can not only be bad, it can also be painful. Thankfully, there are a number of easy ways to take the ouch out of intercourse and make your next sexual encounter a truly orgasmic experience.
Arielle Ford discusses her book "The Soulmate Secret," which helps you find the love of your life using the law of attraction. Vision boards, positive thinking and lists help to keep your mind where your heart is. Watch and learn how to be soulmate-ready!
The new love letter lets you keep the sentiment but skip the stress. Sex and love bloggers Em and Lo suggest writing a love list—no rhyme scheme or thesaurus needed!
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