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VIDEOS IN SEX ADVICE

rape: sexual fantasy
Where do you draw the line between fantasy and reality?

Do My Rape Fantasies Make Me A Weirdo?

The Sinclair Institute's Dr. Lori Buckley explains your secret turn-on.

Do you have sexual fantasies that involve rape? Are you worried if this is normal or not? If so, help is on the way.

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will swinging wreck my marriage?
Would you swap partners with another couple?

Will Swinging Wreck My Marriage?

The Sinclair Institute's Dr. Lori Buckley has the answer.

Are you intrigued by the idea of swinging with another couple? Do you worry that it will hurt your relationship? If so, help is on the way.

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Sex is always hotter with someone you trust.

Is Committed Sex Better?

YourTango Expert Paul Carrick Brunson explains why commitment is great for your sex life.

When you're in a committed relationship, it goes without saying that you know your partner well. Sure, things in the bedroom can get stale over time, but the trust and comfortable familiarity you share with each other allows you to explore and experiment—making lovemaking exciting again.

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how to get what you want in the bedroom
It's all about body language.

How To Ask For What You Want In The Bedroom

YourTango Expert Moushumi Ghose tells it straight how to get what you want ... and how you want it.

You know what you want in bed—a crazy new sex position, a toy, an erotic massage technique—and you crave it between the sheets but you feel a little awkward telling your partner. So how do you get what you want without having to ask?

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I feel obligated to have sex
I have no libido, let's pretend we had sex. MMMKAY?

Why Do I Feel Obligated To Have Sex With My Husband?

YourTango Expert Kate Evans explains why you're disinterested in sex and how to change.

Do you go through the motions when you have sex? Is your spouse starting to resent you for it? If so, help is on the way.

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scheduling sex
You'll look forward to your intimate time (and you may not even make it to the bed).

Why Scheduled Sex Is The Hottest Foreplay

YourTango Expert Dr. Megan Fleming is here to disprove every notion you ever had about planned sex.

Admittedly, scheduling time for intimacy sounds like the most unromantic thing ever. After all, sex is supposed to be wild and spontaneous, right? Well, author and YourTango Expert Dr. Megan Fleming is about to prove you wrong.

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