In this instructional sex video, author, relationship coach and YourTango Expert Dr. Joe Kort explains what it means — and what it doesn't mean — when you learn that your husband has spent time searching the web for homosexually explicit content.
While we might expect teenage boys to stash dirty magazines under their beds, the same cannot be said about grown men in committed relationships. But what if you found out your boyfriend or husband had a dirty little secret hiding on his computer? Would you feel betrayed to learn that his teenage habit had extended into his adulthood?
It's a discovery that will flip your world upside down. You're browsing online trying to find that great site you'd been on the day before, when, to your horror, you find a bunch of naughty websites in your browser's recent history. You certainly weren't looking at porn... so that means your loved one was. How do you go about your day-to-day life when you know this about him or her?