![How To Salvage Your Identity Without Ending Your Marriage [VIDEO]](http://images.tangomag.com/sites/default/files/imagecache/node-full/image_embedded_video/sad_face_0.jpg "How To Salvage Your Identity Without Ending Your Marriage [VIDEO]")
When you're married with children, it's easy to lose your sense of self. After all, you're so busy playing wife to your husband and mom to your kids, it's hard to remember your own identity. But, if you think the solution is to end your marriage, know that you have other options.
Dr. Diana Kirschner gives advice to a woman who is caught in the middle between a man and his two kids.
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This is the story of Alissa Torres and her graphic novel, American Widow, illustrated by Sungyoon Choi, which describes her personal experience as a 9/11 widow and single mother.
What do you call the in-laws? Mr. Smith? Bill's Mother? "Hey you?" Learn all the linguistic techniques for addressing your in-laws in this episode of "Love U".
Do you have a "monster-in-law?" Watch this primer to learn all the techniques for getting along with his first love, his mom. Think honesty is the best policy? Think again!
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