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Why You Shouldn't Fall In Love So Easily

There's no question that at the end of the day, we all want to feel loved. We want that person who won't hesitate to be there for us and just listen when we're going through rough times. But sometimes, we want this feeling so bad that we chase after it even when we know we shouldn't. It may seem sweet at first but that desperation to fall in love and pair off can end up hurting us in the end.

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If You're Serious About Finding Love, You've Got To Do This

Even though there are so many ways to meet people, finding love these days is harder than ever. Seriously, who has the time to go out to different places on the off chance that you will stumble into the perfect guy? Honestly, when it comes to dating, it would probably be so much easier to just let someone else take the reigns for a change. That's what makes matchmakers so appealing.

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Despite Popular Belief, Monogamy DOES Work

With the hookup culture on the rise, being in a faithful and monogamous relationship doesn't seem to be the norm these days. Instead, a lot of people compare the idea of a committed relationship to being trapped because you can't go out and "explore". In fact, many have this notion that monogamy is pretty much the end of your sex life—and that's just not true!

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Seriously, Are There Any Emotionally Mature Men Left?

Based on our own experiences, we know that the dating scene is rough out there. Instead of meeting men who are both secure and emotionally mature, we sometimes run into guys who pretty much act like they are still in high school—Which is seriously frustrating. But even though these less than stellar dates may make it seem like all guys are immature, the fact is that there are still emotionally mature men out there. If we want to find a great guy (who acts his age and not his shoe size), we've got to be upfront about our wants and needs.

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If you want to find love, you've got to stop settling for Mr. Right Now.
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Why You Should Never Settle For Less Than You Deserve

For some reason, people usually think that the older they get, the less chances there are for them to find their love. We're here to tell you that this couldn't be further from the truth! It doesn't matter if you've hit the 30, 40, or 50 benchmark; when it really comes down to it, rushing into dating someone just for the sake of having boyfriend or girlfriend won't do you any favors. Just because you're getting older doesn't mean that you have to settle for with Mr. Right Now when the right guy is out there. Loneliness should never be an excuse to stay in a relationship if you're just not into it.

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Put that checklist down!
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Why Your Checklist Is Ruining Your Love Life

If you're considering jumping back into the dating scene, knowing exactly what you are looking for can have some major perks. However, being so deadset on checking things off of your dating checklist (that is way too specific) can actually end up working against you. There's a difference between having an idea of the type of guy or relationship you are looking for and closing yourself off from other opportunities.

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What To Do When He's Just Not That Into You

There's nothing worse than finally meeting the guy of your dreams and having the perfect first date, only for him to bail (and pretty much disapper) after you make plans to see each other again. The part that drives us crazy is the fact that it really seemed like we hit it off on the date, and all signs pointed to a second one. Nowadays, putting yourself out there and jumping back into the dating pool is hard enough as it is without having to crack the code on so many mixed signals. Does love at first sight even exist anymore?

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We love feeling secure in our relationships.
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How Your Attachment Style Affects Your Relationship

We spend our whole lives forming connections with the people around us; whether it's by talking to a stranger we normally pass on the street or falling in love with our soulmate, the strong bonds that we make throughout our lifetime shape who we are. According to recent studies, our attachment style actually has a major effect on our relationship!

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It shouldn't be a secret!
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How To Tell Your Date What You're Really Looking For

Trying to find someone who shares the same interests as you sometimes feels like finding a needle in a haystack. Don't even get us started on how hard it is to meet people who are upfront about their intentions. But if you're dating around with the hope that you'll find the perfect guy and get married, being totally honest about it will actually work in your favor.

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So just stop.
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Sorry Ladies, You Can't Change Him (So Stop Trying)

Okay, we're just going to come out and say it. When it comes to dating, there is no magic marker that is going to automatically erase every little thing about your partner that you want to get rid of. That includes all of those quirks that you thought were totally endearing in the beginning (but now just find them to be pretty annoying). Here's the real reason why you can't change him.

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You can make it!
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Here's The #1 Secret To Keeping The Spark Alive!

Hitting a rouch patch in a marriage can be really scary, especially when thinking about all of the research that shows that couples tend to call it quits around this time. Who's to say that we'll come out of this stronger than before? How do we even end this cycle, anyway?