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Can You Have A Healthy Non-Monogamous Relationship?

Traditonally, we view healthy relationships as solely monogamous; a relationship that involves ONLY two people. However, times have changed and some couples have become more open to the idea of a non-monogamous relationship. This stirs up a question: "Can a couple live a happy and healthy non-monogamous relationship?" 

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How Can I Let My Walls Down In A Relationship?

It is normal to be nervous about opening up to current or potential partners. However, you're not doing your love life any favors by never letting anyone in. Relationship coach Jasbina Ahluwalia offers insight on what causes you to be so cautious and how to let your guard down.

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Don't drink the poison of a toxic relationship.
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Is It Time To Call It Quits In My Relationship?

The right relationship can be an extremely happy and fulfilling part of your life, but the wrong one will have you feeling just the opposite. If you're feeling emotionally or physically drained, bored or unsatisfied in your relationship, you might need a reality check.

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Change your mind, change your life.
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How Do I Become A More Positive Person?

It's human nature to experience negative thoughts once in awhile. However, if your mind is consistently focused on the lows in life, that is a problem. Don't let these negative feelings keep you from all the positivity surrounding your life. Psychologist Amy Johnson is here to offer advice on how to banish those negative feelings and become a more optimistic person.

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Don't think sex is the way to winning back your ex.
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Will Having Sex With My Ex Bring Us Back Together?

It is often tempting to fall back into an ex's arms or better yet an ex's bed, but is it ever wise to do so? Chances are if you're taking your ex up on his offer for sex, you're either not completely over him or you're interested in pursuing that physical relationship. It's important to evaluate your feelings before jumping back into bed with an ex or you could end up getting hurt. Love consultants Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal join us to discuss what happens when you rekindle a physical relationship with an ex.

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How Do I Stop Being Passive In Relationships?

Some of us are just naturally shy and wait for the person across the bar to pursue us then we end up disappointed when they don't make a move. Although we've all heard the expression "Love comes when you stop looking for it", how much reliance should we actually put on this saying? Should you wait for love to find you or find it for yourself? Love consultants Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal join us to provide answers to these questions and more.

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Do you have a thin friend who thinks she's heavy?
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Body Image: Help! My Skinny Friend Thinks She's Fat

If you have a friend whose physique you envy, but all she seems to do is talk badly about her body, it can be pretty tempting to shake her and scream "What's wrong with you?!" Unfortunately, we all know, that's unlikely to help. In this video, therapist, health coach and YourTango Expert Kris Henderson offers her best advice about how to be supportive to your friend who suffers from low self-esteem.

My Ex Just Got Remarried; How Can He Move On So Quickly?
My Ex Just Got Remarried; How Did He Move On So Quickly?
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My Ex Just Got Remarried; How Can He Move On So Quickly?

Ever wonder why some people seem to rebound from relationships right away while others might take months to recover from a broken heart? What would you do if your ex had a new partner while you were still wiping away the tears? In this video, Psychotherapist, Author & YourTango Expert Julie Orlov explains this very phenomenon for one reader whose ex-husband not only moved on quite quickly after 15 years of marriage, but remarried before the ink on the divorce

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Help! I Have A Boring Sex Life

Has your marriage gone flat in the sack? Looking for ways to add spice back into your relationship? YourTango Expert and sex coach Dr. Dorree Lynn explains how to "renegotiate" your love life. Maybe a little Thursday night hotel sex? Find out more!