Single

June 2nd

Gemini

True person, God fearing, thoughtful, caring, diplomatic.. When confused about love, follow your heart, it may not always be right, but you will have the memories to make you smile. If your head tells one thing and your heart tells you another thing, before you decide, you should first think whether you have a better head or heart. It’s okey to kiss a fool, or to let a fool kiss you but never let be fooled by a kiss. Don’t find love, let it find you, that’s why it’s called “falling in love” because you don’t force yourself to fall. Love is freely given to the one you truly love. Though it is freely given, it is not being asked….and though it needs a lot of investments of your precious time, feelings and even sacrifices but unlike business, it doesn’t need any feasibility studies, nobody can teach you how you should love a person for love moves in a very mysterious ways(MYMP)…. it is being felt in many ways, by attraction, appreciation, etc…and the greatest expression of it is to forget oneself just to save or make others happy (as what the Lord Jesus Christ did when He give his life for us!) It only needs two people for it to grow from a family to a clan and to become communities that make the whole world keep going! Just remember how we arrive at this point. Never be ashamed to show love when you feel it, eventhough they might say, mga bisaya lang ng style, because one day you might realize that love is already afraid to show itself to you. To love someone is to have courage to walk away and let go other that wishes to be free, no matter how much it hurts. Never say, “ I love you”, when you don’t even care. Never talk about feelings if they aren’t there. Never touch a heart if you mean to break it. Never look in the eyes if all you have to say is a lie, and never say hello if you mean to say goodbye. As you text me before: Love is like a butterfly, the more you chase it, the more it eludes you, but if you let it fly it would come to you when the least you expect it. On the course of love, people must teach their hearts to be brave enough to let go, when they realized, that things are not meant to be after all. Most relationships are like traffic signs, one-way, two-way, do not enter the kulambo, NO-U Turn, and of course, bawal mag LEFT-TURN (huwag mangaliwa po!) but what I like most is to GIVE WAY. Words and heart should be handled with care, for words when spoken and hearts when broken are the hardest thing to repair. The simplest pick-up line doesn’t have to say many words, tests, hurdles and proofs: all I need is, “I”, for me to say, “Love”, for me to share it, and, “YOU”, for me to give it. Don’t share your tears to someone who hurt you. Don’t long for a person if they left to Qatar, Dubai or Saudi or to U.S. ahhh, wherever, without your knowledge and understanding. Someone told me by phone, somebody out there is more deserving of my love, time and attention… And if one day, I woke up loving you, you should not wonder why, or how, or since when, or for how long, because I wouldn’t have a single answer except to tell you again and again, di ba? In the game of love, it doesn’t matter who win or lose, what is important is: you know when to hold and when to let go. It’s the presence of the soul that makes you “live”. If your hearts gets broken by the time you truly love, don’t let go of the love for the person but let go of the person. You will never know it might be sweeter the second time around. It’s hard to find true love because people are too caught up looking for the perfect person, they don’t realize that love is not finding the perfect person but being perfect for someone else. It’s not how much love you have in the beginning, but how much love you both had “build” until the end. It’s not how long you know a person but how much you are happy every time you are with him, even though you meet him for a first time. Many people find their soul mates when they meet accidentally. Sometimes you’ll never know that your future mate is the one who bumped you on the street and before you get angry with him, suddenly your anger had gone out, when he pick up those scattered things for you, smiling asking sorry....and you end up going with him to a nearby Starbucks Coffee and it all began there! (Date agad?) Love knows no reason. Love knows no lie. Love refers to all reason. Love has no eyes but love is not blind. It can see many defects and shortcomings but when “in love”, aahhh…..it doesn’t mind. We are sometimes afraid to say, “I love you”, instead we say, “I miss you” but often misunderstood leaving the ones we love on which you don’t realize he is also feeling the same feelings like you do. Love not because it’s worth fighting for……