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"Am I Ugly?"—A Heart Breaking Video Makes News [EXPERT]

"Am I Ugly?"—A Heart Breaking Video Makes News [EXPERT]

Pressure on pre-teen girls is worse than ever and this disturbing You Tube trend is shocking to see.

I saw an article on Huffington Post this morning that made me cringe. I was so stunned, I had to write a post immediately. According to to one NYU Child Study Center study 59 percent of girls in 5th through 12th grade are "dissatisfied with their physical appearance."  Research also shows that little girls' self esteem peaks at, are you ready for this, age 8. Further, a girl’s self esteem “PLUMMETS” after age 9. Yikes.

The Naked Truth

The Naked Truth

Sometimes it's that one glimpse that will get you moving in the right direction

Have you ever seen yourself naked and wondered, “…what on earth happened here…”? We’ve all had those moments where you push back the shower curtain and the mirror across the way shows every little imperfection, blemish and bumps (or is that “rolls“?) If you’re so fortunate as to not have a mirror across from the shower, perhaps you’ve caught a glimpse of yourself as you scamper across the room to get ready.

Are Women Only Into Good Looking Men?

Are Women Only Into Good Looking Men?

We all like a looker, but do women shun men if they're not scalding hot? Maybe! What's up with that?

When it comes to looks, women are typically more forgiving than men. I tend to believe that the first thing that attracts a man to a woman is her looks. On the other hand, a woman wants a man who comes off as intelligent, powerful, and strong. That does not necessarily equate to “good looking”. I remember dating a guy several years ago who was a very well known male model. On a scale of 1-10 this guy was an 11, for sure! He was tall, had a chiseled facial structure, strong arms.

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9 Cities With The Lowest Percentage Of Hot Men

Looking for arm candy? The top nine cities to avoid.

Wondering which cities you can safely skip over on your next all-girls road trip? TotalBeauty.com just made it easier for you, with a handy top list of the cities with the ugliest dudes. Keep reading for the top nine.

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Now There's A Dating Site For Uglies

A niche dating site for ones and twos.

There are a few things to keep in mind when online dating: 1) A picture says a thousand words, 2) if you're looking for something very specific, go for a niche site and 3) know thyself. A new dating site has the latter two facets covered in spades (with a little of the first thrown in for grins). A place called TheUglyBugBall has surfaced in the UK, a place known for its abject honesty. The dating site is BeautifulPeople.com's opposite, in that it's for people who realize they're unattractive.

Courtney Love Says Ugly Women Are Better Lovers

Courtney Love Says Ugly Women Are Better Lovers

Speaking from experience, she says they just "try a lot harder."

Courtney Love, I mean, Courtney Michelle, may be crazy, but sometimes she speaks the truth. No, we're not talking about her latest claim about an affair with '90s dreamboat Gavin Rossdale (and while he was married to Gwen Stefani to boot). We're talking about why she's saying she's so good in bed: it's because she's not pretty. Hmmmm, an interesting theory despite the overshare. Ugly women make better lovers. Is it because the are just so grateful? Tell us, Courtney, tell us! Well, according to her, the reason why she's such a minx in the bedroom is "because I was never pretty. Pretty girls just lie there. Us girls who grew up a little more homely have to try a lot harder. That's why pretty girls never threaten me— it's like, yeah, you want to take me on? Take me on. Go for it." Huh, it kind of makes sense in the same vein that ugly girls have better personalities than pretty girls. Of course, we should never generalize... but maybe she is onto something!

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Would You Join Ugly People Dating Site For $5000?

Ugly people online dating site is seeking a spokesperson for $5000. Would you join?

New dating site network Gotham Dating Partners launched a site uglypeopledate.com. But don't these sites just set people up for disappointment?

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It's What's On The Outside That Counts

The ugly truth is that looks matter.

Just last week we were extolling the virtues of being a late arrival to the pretty game. "Being a late bloomer," our clever blogger Jed wrote, "usually means you're either super smart, really good at something, or used to be, well, less attractive. In any of these cases, it's a positive." Indeed, wouldn't most of us — if forced to choose between the two — rather grow into our looks, rather than grow out of them? We think so. But that got us to thinking about something else: What happens if you start off not so pretty and never grow out of it?