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3 Ways To Recover After A Communication Breakdown [EXPERT]

3 Ways To Recover After A Communication Breakdown [EXPERT]

Return to love, harmony and connection with your partner after a fight or disagreement

Kent and Teresa greet each other with cold stares and only barely speak to one another lately. This communication breakdown in their marriage has been building up for a few months now and it culminated in a huge argument between them over a week ago. Communication has always been challenging for them when difficult topics arise. Teresa tends to easily get angry and yell and shout while Kent usually withdraws into silence or become defensive and guarded.

Helpful Ways To Meet Your Partner's Needs [EXPERT]

Helpful Ways To Meet Your Partner's Needs [EXPERT]

If you find your relationship is drifting apart, then here is what you can do about it!

If you find your relationship is drifting apart, then the good news is you can do something about it. Begin by putting yourself into a loving space and then apply the following: What men are looking for is the Three A's: Appreciate, Acknowledge and Adore

Taking Your Intimacy Beyond The Bedroom [EXPERT]

Taking Your Intimacy Beyond The Bedroom [EXPERT]

The Importance of Emotional and Psychological Intimacy in a Relationship!

  In any couple, being intimate in bed does not fall alone on the physical aspect. Instead, couples should also learn the importance of emotional, as well as psychological intimacy in their relationship.  What is Intimacy?

Sharing Your Negative Feelings & Bringing Him Closer [EXPERT]

Sharing Your Negative Feelings & Bringing Him Closer [EXPERT]

Many women don't want to push men away with negative emotions but sharing can make him love you more

Do you find that you have a pattern of trying to hide your negative feelings from a man who isn't treating you the way you wish he would? When we women love a man and feel that his feelings for us are not as strong as ours are, we feel A LOT of intense, scary feelings, most of which are negative. We are bitter, sad, scared, anxious and even angry. We also feel like we have to hold these feelings inside. We feel we have to stuff them down, keep them under wraps, so that our man doesn’t get turned off by our draining emotions.

4 Reasons Why There's No Romance in Your Relationship

4 Reasons Why There's No Romance in Your Relationship

Stop blocking passion and romance by doing this...

Ah, romance. This very word can bring up strong reactions in people. It might bring up irritation because your partner expects you to be romantic and it's just not your thing. It may trigger sadness and regret at the kind of relationship you'd like to have, but don't. It may cause you to feel nostalgic for earlier times in your relationship when your partner swept you off your feet but that doesn't happen anymore.

Are Strip Clubs Really A Relationship Threat?
Get ready for some sexy fun.

Are Strip Clubs Really A Relationship Threat?

Strip clubs aren't the scary places you imagine.

This is a blog post by a member of the YourTango community. This post has not been edited by the YourTango staff, nor does it represent the opinons of YourTango and its employees. Last Spring in the beginning stage of a new relationship, I joined a group of friends (two couples and one single gal) on an adventure to the world renowned Sin City; Las Vegas.  Everyone going had already seen its' glory but me, so I gave fair warning that I would be making the most of our getaway, and the fun would begin on the plane over.  Needless to say, by the time we lan

The Value Of Trust In Relationships [EXPERT]
Expand your trustworthiness and you will be well on your way on the road to love!

The Value Of Trust In Relationships [EXPERT]

Don't let a lack of trust hold you back from personal freedom and infinite love!

Joy and success in relationships are built on trust. Without trust, what’s really left? Certainly not fulfilling sex! Who and what you trust will have a great impact on the results of your intimate relationship and life. You can look at the quality of trust in your life from four different perspectives: How well you trust in your divine source, how well you trust yourself, how well others trust you, and how well and wisely you trust others.

4 Ways to Pick Up the Pieces After a Relationship Collapse

4 Ways to Pick Up the Pieces After a Relationship Collapse

You CAN repair the damage and re-connect with your partner after a big blow up or betrayal.

It might have been a huge blow-up where you and your partner both said awful, hurtful words. It could have been a slow-building tension that brought coldness and distance. The effects are the same...your relationship feels like it has collapsed. The strong foundation of trust, communication, respect and even love has been shaken and maybe feels destroyed. You're wondering if it is even possible for you two to repair the damage and rebuild your connection.

Surviving the Holidays with a Recovering Addict

Surviving the Holidays with a Recovering Addict

Here is a roadmap to navigate this time of year TOGETHER!

With the holidays approaching it can be very trying on relationships… especially if you are in a relationship with someone making a go at being in recovery from drugs and alcohol. Most holiday gatherings are centered around alcohol and family – two things that are problems for most addicts. Having a roadmap to navigate this time of year is the key to keeping your relationship healthy and supporting your partner through recovery. Here are our Top Five Tools to Surviving the Holidays with a Recovering Addict:

How to Recover From an Affair

How to Recover From an Affair

Is it possible to recover from an affair? It is if you choose to; here's how.

The other day my husband and I were talking about cheating. His first serious girlfriend cheated on him repeatedly, so he takes a hard line approach. In his mind, if I cheated, our relationship would be over. It doesn’t matter if it was a one night stand, someone I never wanted to see again, or if it was someone I wanted a relationship with.