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Top 10 Sexiest Scenes Of 2009

The movie scenes that made us all hot and bothered this year.

2009 was darn sexy, what with all the vampire lust, werewolf lust, and plain old regular-people lust. So which sex scenes kept us on the edge of our seats? Here, our favorite erotic on-screen moments of 2009.

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Top 10 Breakup Songs Of 2009

These songs got us through a year's worth of heartache.

No matter what stage you're break-up is in, a good song helps. Whether you're swollen from crying or red with rage, it's comforting to know that someone else has felt the same anger, regret and pain that you're feeling. Here are some of 2009's best songs for drowning (out) your sorrows.

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Top 10 Single Lady Songs Of 2009

We couldn't resist singing these girl power anthems this year.

You know those songs that come on the radio when you're with your girlfriends and you just let loose and sing along to it? They're songs that you may be embarrassed to love, but darn it, they make you feel good. In the spirit of strong, unattached ladies everywhere, here are 2009's top 10 single-but-ready-to-jingle tunes. Come on, we know you like 'em too…

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Top 10 Date Movies Of 2009

The year's best date movies that both men and women will enjoy.

The year's best date movies. We had to see them in theaters. Now, as these movies are slated to start appearing on DVD, we're itching to watch them again, this time cozied up on the couch with our best guy or gal. Check out our list and tell us what films we may have missed.

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Michael Jackson's Greatest Love Songs

Remembering Michael Jackson's top 10 songs about love. Listen here!

The world lost a pop-culture icon on June 25. From his chubby-cheeked days leading Jackson 5 to his moonwalking, glove-wearing glory in the 1980s, Michael Jackson and his music will not soon be forgotten. His songs are the sort that take you back to the time and place where you first heard them. His music serves as an auditory reminder of whom and how you loved at the time. Out of his incredible collection, we've selected Michael's top love songs and lyrics to read, watch and remember.

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Spring Break: Celebs Who Should Go Away

Our list of stars from whom we need to take a break so we can miss them.

Our list of the top celebrities that we need a break from in the relationship news department.

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Are You Guilty Of These Annoying Couple Habits?

Being in love is not a crime but please don't use your pet names in public.

To the couple who gets on the dirty, overcrowded subway and feels the need to look into each other’s eyes, whisper sweet nothings, and make out for all of three stops - save it.

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Top 10 Breakup Songs Of 2008

Need a new beginning? Here's your soundtrack.

Breakups are like snowflakes: no two are exactly the same. So, too, are the songs that get us through them. Lucky for those in the throws of a breakup, 2008 brought us an array of tunes for the wounded heart. A "good divorce" might feel even better after a listen to Pink's empowered breakup anthem, "So What," written about her own split from husband Corey Hart. Wondering whether to stay or leave? Adele's "Chasing Pavements" sings to your conflicted heart. Finally, those moving out of mourning must have Beyonce's "Single Ladies" in the mix. Musical genius it might not be, but getting out, shaking your thing and reminding yourself why he wasn't worth it all while mimicking B's fierce dance moves can't lead a broken-heart-on-the-mend girl wrong.

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Sex Toys In Disguise

Top 10 toys you don't have to hide in the nightstand.

Sex toys. They're a personal thing. Some people like, um, "realistic" items; others prefer cute (read: pink). Regardless, they aren't something you want anyone stumbling upon besides you and possibly your closest bed buddy. Enter sex toy in disguise. Not that you want to display on the bookshelf (as girl-tech web site Shiny Shiny suggests), but there certainly won't be any awkward moments between you and Mom when she innocently decides to pick up the place while visiting and, well, stumbles upon aforementioned items, such as the Hello Kitty Keychain Massager, left.

10 Men to Run From—Not After

Print this list, and your heart will thank you.

Our feature, 12 Relationship Red Flags, has been generating a lot of debate lately, in part because of the writer's stern warning that a man should never date a woman who puts ketchup on her eggs. A minor offense, it seems, considering the many species of bad-for-you guys running amok and tempting us. Herewith, a field guide to ten we think are well worth skirting—yes, even if you're going through a dry spell. 10. The Iron-Stomached Chef: He offers to cook for you—you politely gag down undercooked sea urchin. (Hint: the sex will be worse.) 9. The Wanna-be Bachelor: Shows up to your blind date holding a single red rose.