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Prepare to get dirty!

Relationship Fail: Get Ready For Our Date In The Mud!

This Southern boy certainly knows the way into his girlfriend's cliché heart.

Now, we know things go down differently in the South than they do where we're based in NYC. There are plenty more cowboy boots, country boys and Kenny Chesney songs, which is all "fine and dandy" in our book. But, for a gal who's not from around those parts, a date proposal that involves large quantities of mud does not sound like a fun, romantic way to spend a Friday night.

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Your partner may be more honest if a question is posed via text message.

Want A Guy To Tell The Truth? Text Him

Study shows we're more likely to reveal sensitive info via text than through a phone conversation.

Some may say there is a downside to our tendency to text, but there are plenty of perks associated with simple SMS messages. Thanks to sexting, you could be in a crowded room but still telling your boyfriend all the dirty things you want to do to him later. And, on the tamer (and potentially less harmful) side, texts are the best way to get someone to reveal the truth.

10 Dos & Don'ts Before Meeting Mr. Online In Person [EXPERT]
Everything you need to know about communicating with your match before you meet!

10 Dos & Don'ts Before Meeting Mr. Online In Person

... featuring advice from YourTango Expert Janet Ong!

So, you've found a guy online who has potential and you've agreed to go out with him. Great! Pressure's off until you meet in person, right? Wrong! Follow these rules to make sure you don't do or say the wrong thing before your first date.

How To Make The Most Of Your Spring Break [EXPERT]
Leave the phone at home and relax this week!

How To Make The Most Of Your Spring Break

Try taking a break from technology.

It's spring break! Whether you get the whole week off or have the weekend to enjoy time with friends and family for Easter, spring is a wonderful time of year where we say goodbye to the dreary weather of winter and hello to the sunshine. Whatever you are doing this spring, we have a challenge for you — take a break from the distractions. In other words, put down your phone, get offline, and get outside!

How To Text With Care
Don't let texting get in the way of your relationships!

How To Text With Care

Tips to keep in mind while you navigate the world of texting etiquette!

Texting has become a primary form of communication in recent years. Relationships end and begin over text. Hurtful things are impulsively sent over text. Loving messages are sent. Requests for the grocery list or dinner are quickly communicated. Is so much texting really a good alternative for actual talking?

In Defense of the Text Break-Up

In Defense of the Text Break-Up

Yes, that's right, I texted a break-up. And I'd do it again.

It seems to show up on everyone's list of dating rules. Don't text a break-up. Have enough respect for the person to say it in person. Texting a break-up is rude and lazy. Blah, blah, blah. I have two complaints about this. Firstly, I really don't need to see a guy's face if he's telling me he doesn't want to be with me anymore. I don't need the visual to go with the memory. And I don't need him to see my face either, especially if I'm going to cry. My eyes get puffy when I cry. It's not my best look.

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Love Bytes: What His Text Messages Really Mean

Plus, 6 types of men who it sucks to date. And, is Halloween a good time to introduce a sex fetish?

Reading into text messages with your partner makes you closer, probably. Is Halloween a good time to introduce a fetish to your spouse or whatever? A woman can be something other than a virgin or a whore. Six types of men are very difficult to date. Man, Woman, Wild can teach you how to make your couple vacation not too terrible. Last-minute couples costumes for everyone!

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Do Anthony Weiner's Texts Count As Cheating?

Do Anthony Weiner's illicit Twitter messages, photos and emails count as infidelity?

When the X-rated picture of his Anthony Weiner's manhood finally hit the internet this week, one thing was certain: "Weinergate" certainly makes people laugh. But it is also stirring discussion on infidelity in the digital age. During his speech earlier this week, Weiner emphasized that he hadn't met any of the women he'd been sexting, let alone conducted relations with them. Does this mean he's off the hook? We know that a lot of you would be angry if your husband sent naked pictures to someone else, despite not having slept with her.