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3 Skills Your Children Should Have Before They Leave Home [EXPERT
Is your child equipped for the "real world?"

3 Skills Your Children Should Have Before They Leave Home [EXPERT

Streets smarts are just as important as book smarts when children leave home.

Parents seem to spend a great deal of time worrying about and developing their children's intellectual skills and athletic prowess. These are worthy pursuits, yet they alone probably won't help your children navigate the often-challenging world that they will soon face.

10 Signs That Your Teen Is In An Abusive Relationship

10 Signs That Your Teen Is In An Abusive Relationship

Study says that one out of three teens are a victim of dating violence.

February is teen dating violence awareness month. A recent study among college students reports that more than one out of three teens, ranging in ages 13 to 19, was a victim of dating violence. This abuse included physical, sexual and psychological abuse.

Parent Advice: 5 Ways To End Teen's Behavior Problems

Parent Advice: 5 Ways To End Teen's Behavior Problems

The best time to teach respect, responsibility and resilience is when kids are small. Not too late.

Imagine a scene where you ask your teen to pick up his clothes and he smiles and does it immediately.  Does that sound too far-fetched.  Maybe not, read on…. Every teen misbehaves at some point or another. From talking back and slamming doors to ditching class and using profanity. It’s normal for teens to want to feel independent, but it’s not acceptable for them to act out in a negative manner. Don’t go to the extreme, however — sending them off to boarding school isn’t the answer.

3 Easy Steps To Enjoy Children

3 Easy Steps To Enjoy Children

Perhaps you are uncomfortable around kids. Would you like some easy steps to enjoy children?

Imagine a scene where you are laughing and having fun with the children in your life?  Can you picture the joy you will feel when there is no stress or  disharmony?  Is it possible to have that quality time with your family and children in your circle of influence?  You will think more positively after you have read these three easy steps to really enjoy children.

plan b
Some feel it's a good lesson to teach kids.

Why Emergency Contraception For Teens Is A Good Idea

The American Academy of Pediatrics advocates handing out Plan B in schools, and so do I.

It was about a year ago that the feds put the kibosh on over-the-counter emergency contraceptive for women of all ages, despite solid science from the FDA that proved the morning-after pill was 100% safe and effective regardless of age. Instead, the Obama administration instituted a plan that would require girls under 17 to get a prescription for Plan B, while those 17 and older would have prescription-free access at their local pharmacy. Now, it looks like the American Academy of Pediatrics is looking to shake things up, too, and possibly tear down some of those barriers created last year.

Oh Dad No: Do We Have to Have the 'Sex Talk' Now?

Oh Dad No: Do We Have to Have the 'Sex Talk' Now?

One of the most important conversation I've had with my teenage son.

Being a professional life coach for teens has its benefits and challenges.  Frankly, most of the benefits come from my wonderful adolescent clients.  Ironically, the biggest challenges come from my own teenage children.  My oldest daughter is a senior in high school, and when it came to the “sex talk” I was told that I was not the appropriate parent.  Even though I had numerous conversations time and again with other teens, it was clear that I wasn’t allowed to speak with her about this topic.  I was given the reasons, relinquished that role and

Homecoming Queen
A small community in Michigan has come out in support of a bullied teen.

Town Rallies For Bullied Teenage Girl To Be Homecoming Queen

Whitney Kropp had been bullied for her black clothing and multicolored hair.

In what is possibly the most heartwarming story of the week, an entire community in Michigan has come out in support of a bullied teen.

Dear Bully

Dear Bully

What's really going on behind that tough, mean, "I'm gonna kick your a$&" persona?

Dear Bully, What makes you think you can treat other people the way that you do? What inside you tells you it is OK to ridicule, push around and threaten those that cross your path? What do you gain from it? Do you really get that? Or are you fooling yourself?

Why Teens Are Addicted To Anger & How Parents Can Help [EXPERT]
Is your teen a ticking time bomb?

Why Teens Are Addicted To Anger & How Parents Can Help

Anger often becomes an addiction for adolescents. Learn to help them quell this fiery emotion.

A recent Harvard Medical School study found that nearly 8% of adolescents experienced bouts of extreme anger, sufficient to be diagnosed as "intermittent explosive disorder" — a form of mental illness. I'm surprised the number isn't higher.

How To Talk To Your Son About Masturbating [EXPERT]
Do you need to speak to your son about masturbating?

How To Talk To Your Son About Masturbating

Talking to your teen about masturbating can be difficult. Use this advice to make it easier!

My son is 15 years old and during the past month I have walked in to my home while he was masturbating in the living room. Just yesterday, he fell asleep after doing it on his bed with the door open. I am also noticing lotion or spray on his shirts. I do not know how to handle this. Should I confront him about it?

What Are We Teaching Our Daughter's About Their Bodies?

What Are We Teaching Our Daughter's About Their Bodies?

A British mom urging her teenage daughter to get breast implants: say it isn't so.

Oh no, just when I thought that I had heard and seen it all I am made painfully aware that I haven't. A British mother named Chantal Marshall is apparently perplexed that one of her five daughters is currently not in favor of getting breast implants. Apparently her four other daughter have conceded but 14 year old Britney is not in favor and the mother is bewildered. The youngest daughter of the clan would like to focus on her studies at this point rather than on her cleavage. This youngest daughter of the family may be breaking with family tradition and yes it may cause a rift.