Waiting until marriage to have sex? Know your limits and learn how to deal with men who pressure you to have sex. Matt and Tamsen give advice.

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I was twenty-nine, single again after a five-year marriage, and a virgin. When I met my now ex-husband Mike, I had just turned 21. We met at small Catholic liberal arts college, and even though I no longer believed in Jesus, the Saints, the Bible, God, really any of that. I was a virgin then, and I was a virgin when we divorced.

When I was younger, I'd wanted to stay pure, and had managed to protect my virginity despite all the high school guys I'd went out with, and the ten or so guys I'd dated in … Read More

Looks like Justin Timberlake may not be sick of taking questions about relationships after all. When US Magazine caught him outside of the Keep a Child Alive Ball in New York on Thursday, the musician/actor said, “I’m not sure.”  Timberlake’s girlfriend, actress Jessica Biel, moved into his six bedroom California home over the summer and the two are close to closing on property in the exclusive Tribeca neighborhood of New York City. 

Jessica may share his concerns about the concept of becoming a parent. In a recent Harper’s Bazaar magazine article, … Read More

The facts: According to USA Today, Americans are getting hitched later than ever—the 2007 census put the median marriage age at 25.6 for women and 27.5 for men. In 1890, when the census started tracking the stat, it was 26 for men and 22 for women. Marriage ages reached a low in the early 60s when the median was 22 for men and 20 for women. Since then we've been waiting longer and longer to say "I do."

To wed or to wait: that is the question. Not surprisingly, there are good arguments for both sides. If you … Read More

This explains a lot. According to Celebitchy, Mariah Carey is of the purchasing the cow first school. The singer, songwriter, and innovator of the cut-off jean tops look (how did that look not have more staying power?) decided that she would try a new tactic (it may have been a strategy) with Nick Cannon: the old forbidden fruit route. We would never have pictured the diva as a fan of the Georgia Satellites but she took this play straight from their classic "Keep Your Hands To Yourself":

Always no huggin no kissin until I … Read More

I'm sitting here in my apartment in (almost) silence, touching up an article I need to get out of the way before I leave for dinner with a friend who's visiting the city. The sun is spilling through the window, taunting me a little, since I could be sprawled out with a book on the grass in the park today. Instead, I'm here stressing.

The lease to my overpriced apartment is expiring in September and my roommates and I are in a state of desperation, trying to find a better deal on another one in the same complex. There are … Read More