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9 Dangerous Ways To Relax

Want to relieve anxiety, stress and boredom? Don't do these things.

Remember these words: The poison is in the dose. They apply to all of the following nine items in this rogue's gallery of dangerous things we commonly do to relieve anxiety, stress and boredom. Every one of the following items has a split personality. They may be (and frequently are) a source of pleasure but all have the potential to wreck havoc with your life and health.

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Keys To Happiness: Wealth, Weddings, Semen

Surveys of happiness come to some pretty interesting conclusions.

People who make more money are happier. So are people who are in good heath. But engaged people appear to be the happiest of all. You know what else, unsurprisingly, makes people really happy? Unprotected sex.

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This Woman Gave Her Boyfriend HIV—Knowingly

This German pop princess is facing the consequences of having unprotected sex while HIV positive.

According to German law, anyone can be sued if they are HIV positive, have unprotected sex with a partner and don't tell the other party (or, in this case, -ies.)

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Economic Downturns & The Revenge Of Syph

Fighting STDs with Wal-Mart gift cards.

Syphilis is called the "French Disease" by the Germans, the "German Disease" by the French and the "Polish Disease" by the Russians. For the last 60 years the disease was on the wane in America but a strange thing happened on our way to economic ruin and recovery: the bacteria rebounded. One county in North Carolina's beating it back with an unexpected method: Wal-Mart gift cards.

TV Or Sex: Technology To Ease Overcrowding?

TV Or Sex: Technology To Ease Overcrowding?

Could television be the great third-world prophylactic savior?

This year to mark World Population Day, the Indian Minister of Health and Welfare, Ghulam Nabi Azad, made an interesting comment regarding population control in the subcontinent. To paraphrase, he thought that if they could get electricity to the villages that locals may be too tired to baby-make thus reducing overcrowding. Not everyone thought it was brilliant.

Divorce And Viagra Cause Middle-Aged STI Jump

Divorce And Viagra Cause Middle-Aged STI Jump

Sexually transmitted diseases enjoy a middle-aged heydey in Great Britain.

According to the GUM (general-urinary medicine) clinics and Dr Christian Jessen, the sexual health expert and director of the Better2Know clinics, in the past five years almost all STI's have experienced a massive jump among the middle-aged divorced set in Great Britain.

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My Year of Condomless Sex

Rachel Kramer Bussel dissects why and how unprotected sex happens.

2006 was a year of unprotected sex for me. No, not every time, but I started off the year with a fling with a slightly older man I was besotted with, who didn’t speak a word about condoms, and, in response, I didn’t either. I wanted to trust that he had some magical knowledge that somehow I was missing, that maybe the world had overturned itself and they were no longer necessary. I was wrong, and after a pregnancy panic as I searched for Plan B—this was right before it was so readily available—I escaped unscathed. Then later that year I met a guy I fell absolutely head over heels with, sure that we were destined to be together.

Morning News Feed: Friday, November 14

Morning News Feed: Friday, November 14

Happy people have sex, divorce causes death, deathly revenge, teen-mother envy.

A 30-year Springer study found that happy people are watching less TV and having more sex. Surprise, surprise! Reuters Health reported a study this week that parents of a child with ADHD are almost twice as likely to divorce before the child’s 8th birthday. Also likely to divorce: couples with monstrous mother-in-laws. In Italy, a man was granted divorce for his nagging mother-in-law. He’s seeking an orphan as his next partner, according to The Daily Times in Pakistan. There’s even worse news for divorcees this morning. The Local reports a Rostock University study done in Germany found that people who get divorced die an average of nine years earlier than those who don’t.