I thought I'd had "rough sex" before; I'd been spanked on my butt plenty of times, had my hair pulled, even been caned once while strung up with my hands over my head. That hurt, and I cried, and I liked it, because I'm submissive like that, but it was just a one-time thing. I'd had plenty of encounters with talking dirty, spinning all sorts of nasty fantasies, where, most of the time, I was on the receiving end of some very hot epithets. But I'd never wanted to be choked until I got together with the … Read More

This may be too old school for you old fools, but I was just interneting the interweb and bumped into this oldie but goodie of things being said during whoopie-making on Incredimazing (give it a gander, it's a flowchart). That was pretty funny (in both the weird and ha-ha sense). But talking dirty, even if already sexually engaged, is a big turn-on for some. Just not everyone is good at it. Read: Dirty Talk Saved My Relationship

Normally, I'd go the other route and give a list of things that will spoil the moment so you can … Read More

Love Bytes: three must click sex, dating and relationship links.

She said what in bed? [The Frisky]

Tips for telling your partner you've tested positive for a STD. [College Candy]

There's even the option to send the card anonymously, if you'd like, which eliminates the embarrassment of a face-to-face meeting.  It's also a great option if you aren't on speaking terms with your ex.

What to say when your partner can't let go of an ex. [DivineCaroline]

Murray calls a phone sex line and talks dirty with computer-generated voices—but he doesn't get quite what he expected.

It was several years into my current relationship when sex started becoming a mundane activity that was scheduled rather than spontaneous they way it used to be. Quite frankly sex had become about as exciting as chopping broccoli. That all changed one night when I heard something at the beginning of our normal ritualistic once-a-week sex that perked up my ears and libido.

Any talking we had ever done during sex was more or less directional or something along the lines of "is that it, baby?" or "I can't do this with the cat in the room!" We just did … Read More

If we had to generalize, we'd guess grandmothers would rather not hear us curse. Same goes for rabbis, pastors and parents with young, impressionable children in tow. But what about the men in our lives?

The Frisky asked a number of men, both on a radio show and online: What do you think of women cursing?

While the verdict didn't come out to a clear "sexy" or "scummy" consensus, most men agreed that swearing, when done poorly, is extremely unattractive on a woman. And, really, the same goes for men. A well-placed curse here or there can add humor or … Read More