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What Men Really Think About You in the Club

What Men Really Think About You in the Club

Men will consider sleeping with the trashy looking girl, but will never bring her home to mama.

Men and women usually go to the club for vastly different reasons. Men go to the club to find women, find women, and to find women. Women go to the club to sometimes find a man, but also to enjoy themselves by dancing and drinking the night away with friends. Men are reactionary creatures. If you want to know what we think about you at the club, all you need to do is evaluate one thing: Your activity at the club. Men read what women give us to read. It’s as simple as that.

Understanding Why Men Climax So Fast

Understanding Why Men Climax So Fast

With mind control, we can control our climax, but this usually requires some far-off thought.

  We’ve received this question from many women and have decided to address it here. As we often repeat, we’re here to help you understand how we think, and why we do what we do. The more you understand about us, the less confused you’ll be, and the easier it will be for you to have an open, successful relationship with the man of your dreams.

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Satisfy your man at home and he won't waste his money at a club.

Tease & Please: 7 Lessons You Can Learn From Strippers [EXPERT]

Make his fantasy a reality with these simple tricks.

Most men enjoy strippers. Even the ones who do not actively visit strip clubs like the idea of a sexy woman dancing naked for them. Throw in the fact that men are visual animals with a genetic predisposition to breed with as many women as possible in order to successfully spread their genetic seeds. You can see the appeal on a purely instinctual level.

10 Tips on How to be a Great Lover

Here are 10 tips on how to be a great, memorable lover who will be appreciated, desired, admired, wanted, needed and loved. Just follow these steps and you’ll go down in history as one of the world’s greatest lover.

The Best Of The Web:  Father's Day & A Little Luck

The Best Of The Web: Father's Day & A Little Luck

Plus dirty dancing, swingers and a little striptease.

When a lady realizes she's hard to date. Why cooking for him too early could backfire. Is it better to be lucky or good? Dirty dancing banned after racy Philly prom. When social media and dating go wrong. Keeping the dogs out of the marital bed. What guys think after a one-night stand. Seven ways to enjoy your own wedding. When your younger sister gets married first. How to know if your parents are swingers. Dating an Ivy League grad. And a Father's Day striptease.

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Striptease Tips From The Burlesque Handbook

Learn how to strip for your partner with these 5 simple tips.

Burlesque superstar Jo Boobs has been wowing audiences and teaching eager exhibitionists, like myself and Margaret Cho, with her amazing va-va-voom skills. The School of Burlesque’s Headmistress Jo has taught me all my naughtiest moves, and took me from clumsy nerd to confident lap dancer.

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Why Women Love To Flirt With Men They Don't Like

Why do some women flirt with everyone—even men they don't like?

Why do some women flirt with everyone—even men they don't like? Our writer explains: "It all started when I was an awkward, mercilessly ugly 12-year-old. And then I discovered what would drastically alter the direction of my life: a stack of Playboys in my step-grandfather's closet. I could master the art of the smoldering stare. I could pout my lips and trail my finger across my chest. I could do this! That day, a flirt was born."

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How Burlesque Helped Me Heal

How stripping helped get one woman back on her feet and discover her inner vixen.

The U.S. job market tanked, the dollar crashed, and my company laid off 16 investigators. The experience left me feeling shaken and insecure. And then one day I came across a video of famed American burlesque performer Dita Von Teese dancing at the Crazy Horse. Three minutes later I was enrolled in a class to learn the art of burlesque.

Week #13--Creating Couple Intimacy

Week #13--Creating Couple Intimacy

As I’m getting my fill of intimacy from interactions with my children, my husband, meanwhile, sits in the wings waiting for me to throw him an intimacy bone. It’s not that I don’t want to share intimate experiences with my husband or that I don’t feel I have the capacity to take in any more of these wonderful feelings. Plain and simple: I’m already intimately satiated.

Love Bytes: Become A Great Kisser

Love Bytes: Become A Great Kisser

Kissing advice, striptease tips, and the health benefits of sperm.

Love Bytes: Three must click sex, dating and relationship links. Kissing advice, striptease tips, and the health benefits of sperm.