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8 Things Straight People Could Learn From Gays & Lesbians

Oct. 11 is National Coming Out Day! Gay people have a ton to teach us about love and relationships.

Happy National Coming Out Day, a day when gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered people are encouraged to stand up and speak up about who they are. It's an emotionally charged day for many, but it's also a reason to celebrate.

People Cheat Less Now Than They Did In 1975

People Cheat Less Now Than They Did In 1975

Gay or straight, modern men and women are more faithful than those in the disco era.

The good news keeps rolling in for those concerned about infidelity. We recently reported that the rate of divorce due to cheating has decreased, which is great news for those who have tied the knot. Now we've got great news for an even broader spectrum of lovers—overall, all couples are being more monogamous than they were in the 70s.

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Is Your Relationship Causing Your Bad Habits?

Smoking, junk food, biting your nails...could you be doing these things because of your partner?

When it comes to relationships, straight people in marriages and gays in long-term, intimate cohabitation partnerships may pick up unhealthy habits from their significant others, U.S. researchers say.

The Day My Gay BFF And I Became Lovers

The Day My Gay BFF And I Became Lovers

The story of one girl's hot and heavy affair with a flamboyantly gay man.

Some of us secretly fantasize about the day our hot, adorable gay pal realizes that he's totally straight for you—even what he's been looking for this whole time, and you fall into each others' arms, giggling and cuddling forever. Well, I decided to live the dream when I started a hot and heavy affair with a flamboyantly gay man. This is that story.

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5 Reasons We're So Over Girl-On-Girl Kissing

Kissing is fun. But why do people act like it's such a big deal when two girls are doing it?

Don't get us wrong. We like kissing. We like it a lot. And we want everyone who enjoys kissing to be able to kiss whomever they want (as long as it's all consensual, of course). But here's where we've had it: girl-on-girl kissing. Not the kissing itself. But the ridiculous hullabaloo that erupts around it. What's the big deal? Why do people care? And why do straight female celebrities (yes, you, Megan Fox and Katy Perry) keep making such a big deal out of the fact that they've done it?

The Gay Housewives Are Coming

The Gay Housewives Are Coming

Take The Real Housewives and dip it in shimmer.

The same production company who masterminded The Real Housewives of Atlanta is looking for fabulous gay men to add some sparkle to reality television. But these aren't just any gay men—but gay men living the glam life in a May/December type of show-mance.

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Daniel Radcliffe Stands Up For Gay People

Harry Potter "had experience with homosexuality" and says anti-gayness is "animal" and "disgusting."

Harry Potter's Daniel Radcliffe "had experience with homosexuality" and says anti-gayness is "animal" and "disgusting." YourTango's Celebrity Love blog has the story.

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I'm A Politician, Let Me Fix You Up

Ron Paul, the libertarian politician from Texas, inspires an online dating site. Is this a trend?

Given the plethora of niche dating sites out there, finding one expressly for fans of politician Ron Paul, should not have come as a surprise. Unlike Obamadatingsite.com, which features nary an ode to our President beyond his namesake, RonPaulSingles.com caters to fans of the Texan Congressman. At the time of this post, there were currently 113 members registered on the site—84 men and 29 women—all presumably poised to find love among fellow Federal government haters.

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Are More Women Having Bisexual Tendencies?

Female bisexuality seems to be more prevalent these days, at least on "The Real World: Cancun."

Watching 'The Real World: Cancun' makes me feel old for multiple reasons. 1. I am five years too old to actually be cast on the show. 2. It's so insanely vapid that I cannot actually watch a full episode, which says a lot considering I can stomach an entire marathon of "Keeping Up With The Kardashians." 3. Every single girl in the cast seems to be bisexual. Why does point three make me feel old? Well, I think I just missed the boat on the bisexuality trend. Hear me out. I believe sexuality is a spectrum and where we fall on that spectrum when we're born and how our sexuality evolves as a result of societal influence depends on the person. I also don't think it's relevant whether a person is gay, straight or bi, whether they were born that way or 'chose' that 'lifestyle,' as I don't think what goes on in a person's bedroom or romantic life is anyone's business. In the last five years or so, female bisexuality has become quite 'cool.'

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Gay Penguins Split Over Homewrecking Female Bird

It's not easy being shafted for another bird, even when you're a bird.

Infidelity, jealousy, separation...they aren't just human problems. Members of the animal kingdom also face such relationship afflictions. Consider, for example, Harry and Pepper. Since 2003, the two male Magellan penguins have been a happily paired gay couple well-known to visitors of the San Francisco Zoo. In addition to nesting together, Harry and Pepper became parents when they incubated an egg laid by another penguin in 2008. But things turned sour earlier this year when Linda, a recently widowed female penguin, befriended Harry.

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Gay Or Straight, No Kids Means No Marriage

Why gay couples and straight couples without kids are the same in the eyes of some.

It seems quite silly really. Deny heterosexual couples the right to get married? Not in this country. But aha! We could be headed there very shortly if definition is to be followed and conservatives are not to be questioned.