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I believe that we can have many soul mates in our life, each relationship helps our soul evolve.

Soul Mates I believe that we can have many soul mates in our life, each relationship becoming a part of our soul’s evolution. Soul mates bring us to different levels of ourselves until we reach the beloved experience within, the ultimate partnership. Soul mates can be stepping-stones to the beloved experience. I have met couples who have stayed together through the struggle and have evolved into the safe, sacred and passionate belovedness.

Mirror Mirror on The Wall

Mirror Mirror on The Wall

Feeling distant from your partner this Valentine's Day? Here is exactly what to do to get closer.

“I remember picking myself up off the floor....I could taste the blood running into my mouth....I’d never been hit before--I was shocked, humiliated and very scared.” So many years ago and yet even now, it chills me to read those words. You might think that it chills me because being assaulted so violently forever marked my soul, but you would be wrong.  What chills me is that I was so deaf and blind to my own guidance and found myself within 100 miles of such violence.

 Codependent? 7 Step Reality Check Process

Codependent? 7 Step Reality Check Process

Do you have a codependent mindset sabotaging your dream before it can root itself and become real?

Manifestation continues to make headlines as stars like Jim Carrey, Oprah Winfrey and Ellen DeGeneres tout manifestation techniques as part of their career strategy. If you want the life of your dreams, say the gurus, keep picturing that new job or that perfect soul mate or new home will amazingly come to be, it must come to be.  It is Universal Law. 

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MLK's tenacity teaches us to remain in the dating game despite having been hurt.

MLK Day: 3 Love Lessons From Martin Luther King Jr.

How Martin Luther King Jr.'s teachings can help you find love.

Think it's a far stretch to say that Martin Luther King Jr.'s teachings can land you the man of your dreams? "Come on, YourTango, not everything has a love angle," you say. Well, one of our experts, Shay "Your Date Diva" Williams, wrote an article just in time for MLK Day that will prove you wrong.

Chemistry, Values and Other Things… How Do I Know He Is the One?

Chemistry, Values and Other Things… How Do I Know He Is the One?

Our biggest problem is that we are disconnected from our deepest desires. When it comes to choosing

Our biggest problem is that we are disconnected from our deepest desires. When it comes to choosing a romantic partner we often fall prey to a superficial image that we created in our head, and remain oblivious of the gentle whisper of our intuition that conveys the longing of our soul. How do we know he is “The One”? Is there any way to tell? Here are some practical steps you can take.  

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"He's Still Here": A 9/11 Wife On Love's Endless Bond

Author Bonnie McEneaney shares hope from beyond, as well as love lessons for all women and couples.

Bonnie McEneaney, an author, former business executive and mother of four, lost her husband on Sept. 11, 2001 after he experienced premonitions that his life would end in a terrorist attack on New York City. Ten years later, Bonnie opens up on how the tragedy strengthened her spiritual bond with her deceased husband and what all women can learn about love based on the signs she's received from beyond.

Taking Care of Yourself Will Help Take Care Your Relationship

Taking Care of Yourself Will Help Take Care Your Relationship

Are you a person who takes care of everyone else before yourself?

Are you a person who takes care of everyone else before yourself? Do you believe you should put yourself last? If you take care of other's needs before your needs routinely, then you may have co-dependent tendencies. Taking care of yourself enables you to then be available to take care of others. If you neglect your personal needs and wishes and care for others instead, then you may begin to feel resentful and "empty." In a relationship, co-dependent behaviors can potentially sabotage your relationship success.

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Complete This Sentence: I Knew It Was Meant To Be When...

When did things start feeling "right" between you and your partner?

Is there such a thing as "The One?" Regardless of your belief (or lack thereof) in a soul mate, you have to admit that there was a moment when things just felt "right" between you and your partner. If you're happily in love, tell us about what triggered that feeling in you. Was it love at first sight, or did it require a written list of pros and cons? Did it strike you in the middle of the night? Did that feeling develop after you'd weathered a few storms together? Or were you only sure once you'd received counsel from friends and family?

Beginners Mind: Secret to Manifesting a Soulmate

Beginners Mind: Secret to Manifesting a Soulmate

This Secret to Attracting BIG LOVE is one of my favorites. You can practice it anywhere!

What does it take to manifest the love of your life? I've heard from first-time brides (at 49 and older!), from busy entrepreneurs whose 80-hour-a-week work schedules left little time for romance, and from divorcees and widowers who were convinced that the opportunity for true love had long passed them by. Those who have successfully manifested their soulmates did so by finding a healthy balance between intending and allowing; between doing and being.