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No Shave November: Dudes, Where's Your Chest Hair?
Ryan Reynolds: Dude, where's my chest hair? Oh yeah, I waxed it off because GQ told me to.

No Shave November: Dudes, Where's Your Chest Hair?

It may be No Shave November, but men are shaving a lot more these days. Body image issues?

We've come a long way from the days of Burt Reynolds' hairy chest to what's considered sexy now. "No Shave November," this month's prostate cancer awareness campaign, which is encouraging men not to shave for the entire month, is certainly an exception to the trend!

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Should Your Man Pay For Your Bikini Wax?

If your man prefers a bikini wax as below-the-belt grooming, should he be the one to pay?

In The Hairpin's Ask a Dude column recently, an advice-seeker brought up this hairy situation: who should pay for your bikini wax? She thinks the man asking for it should, writing "I always think guys should be paying for the Brazilians if they want their ladies to have them. Is that insane?"

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The Hair Down There Was His Deal Breaker

He mentioned that she should groom "down there." But was that just an excuse for him to split?

On our first date, we ended up making out in a bar on the Lower East Side. Our second date, I invited him up to my apartment. Maybe I was moving too fast, but I didn't care. After a tough breakup, I wanted to let my hair down. Which, I discovered over the next few weeks, wasn't Tobey's thing. One night I mentioned it jokingly, and he said, "I don't mind doing that at all. If a woman is well-groomed."

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Facial Hair: Should You Ask Him To Shave?

Shave or not to shave: what to do when your man's facial hair is leaving your face raw.

We've all been there: You come up for air during a heavy makeout session and feel a distinct burning sensation... on your face. Thanks to Loverboy's adoption of the rugged men of "Lost"'s unshaven aesthetic, you've got yourself a case of razor burn worse than when you first tried shaving your legs without water. Love hurts, yes, but it shouldn't be threaten to ruin all of the hard work of your Proactiv regimen. So what's a tactful but smitten woman to do when a dude's facial hair causes her pain? Advice expert Alanna Kalb, author of the upcoming book Stuff Every Woman Should Know, has this to say: "Much like wearing lumberjack plaid, beards make men feel masculine. And men like to feel masculine." In other words, it might be your skin at stake, but it could also be his manhood, so broach the subject with sensitivity.

Tricks to no sex talk: Shaving?

Tricks to no sex talk: Shaving?

Ladies, do you ever NOT shave your legs or your vay jay jay just so you don't fall into temptation and sleep with a guy? The dry humping is getting hot and heavy on his couch and his python is ready to bust out of his pants and the only thing that is saving you from doing the dirty is that fuzzy peach you're hiding in those undies. Or what about those horrendous granny panties that will leave his penis in a comatose stage in seconds? Do any of these girl tricks work? I have to personally say that yes, not being in open house condition has stopped me from sleeping with a guy and seriously, I will drive home thanking god and my ingenuity otherwise I would be in some hot mess ;)

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Can Manscaping Go Too Far?

Comedienne Brooke Van Poppelen implores men to think twice before shaving their crotches.

Manscaping, as a trend, may have hit its final plateau. Evidently, the grooming trend has gone to the point that some women are actually imploring men to let things grow a bit rather than shaving all of their pubic hair clean off. Let us know what you think.

Manscaping The Land Down Under

Manscaping The Land Down Under

Has the metrosexual epoch hit a crescendo with male nether region shaving?

The "metrosexual" movement has made for interesting times. The David Beckham school of looking like a man has introduced a number of trends including manscaping. It looks like grooming is moving south of the border (not to Mexico) and the guys are getting smooth like the ladies. It looks like men, these days are more and more interested in being perfectly bare... down there.

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4 Reasons Women Find Mustaches Sexy

It has been shown that women prefer a little bit of facial hair, but are mustaches the new stubble?

The Telegraph reported that in a study carried out by psychologists at Northumbria University in Britain, women were found to rate men with stubble as, "tough, mature, aggressive, dominant, and masculine – and as the best romantic partners, either for a fling or a long-term relationship."Read: Stubble: The Best of Both Worlds But this study only asked women about men who shave their faces clean of hair (or the ones can't grow any hair to begin with), the rugged man who always has a little bit of stubble and guys who sport full-on beards. It left out one of the most important facial features a man can create, style and show off: the mustache. Given the options the study provided, it's no surprise females preferred men who groom their faces to resemble the hottest TV hunks like Matthew Fox (Jack) and Josh Holloway (Sawyer) from Lost and Patrick Dempsey (McDreamy) from Grey's Anatomy.

Things She Can't Handle

5 Things He Doesn't Think You Can Handle

Why do we need a stylish screwdriver to get our hands dirty?

Don't tell us your face is more complicated than the entire female body combined. If a woman can run a plastic razor up her leg while balancing on one foot, don't you think she can handle a battery operated Norelco? The female hair removal system revolves around a single blade and a smoldering pot of wax. Where's our flex and pivot technology?

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The Next Innovation In Self-Pleasure

The Tinge is a vibrator disguised as a razor: have an orgasm with that shave!

The Tinge is a vibrator disguised as a razor: have an orgasm with that shave! It looks like a thicker version of a pink Gillette Venus and you can use it to shave your legs—or to pleasure yourself. The Tinge also comes with a charging stand, so you can keep it in your bathroom to use in tandem with water pressure in the shower, and no one will be the wiser.