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For Women, Sex Gets Better With Age—Right, Betty White?

As women age, their sexual desire declines -- but they're still incredibly satisfied in the bedroom.

Women like Betty White know that aging doesn't have to be something we dread. Yes, body parts may sag, faces may wrinkle and hairs may turn white, but getting older promises much more than a change in appearance—it promises high sexual satisfaction, too.

Dating & Relationships: 50 Sex Tips For Men & Women

Dating & Relationships: 50 Sex Tips For Men & Women

Keep the sex alive in your relationship by keeping it new! Try these tips out at home.

Regardless of whether you are in a relationship or just dating at the moment, these tips are something to implement into your sex-life. Many of us forget about the little things that we loved about each other when we first met & become complacent within our relationships. This is not something to be taken lightly and nurturing the love between you & your partner should be a top priority on a daily basis.

7 Positions to Sleep in that Will Excite the Man of Your Dreams

7 Positions to Sleep in that Will Excite the Man of Your Dreams

Positions that are sure to have your man wanting nothing more than to be between the sheets with you

  Body language reveals our true feelings, and your relationship partner has no trouble with picking up on this physical queue. But what does your body language say while you are sleep? Are there sleeping positions that will excite the man of your dreams? In sleep, we are our most honest, vulnerable selves and certain sleep positions can immediately evoke sensual thoughts and pleasures.

All Vaginas Are Not Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed

All Vaginas Are Not Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed

Men will tell other men about how bad it was but they will not tell you.

  All Vaginas Are Not Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed   The only way you will get this information out of a man is if you have seriously hurt his ego or made him extremely mad. Despite what one may think, a man will become uninterested for this very reason. He will never tell you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. How do you know you if a man likes your Vagina? How do you know he does not?

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"It's better to know it and not need it than to need it and not know it!"

Oral Sex 101: What You Need To Know [EXPERT]

What a man really wants out of oral pleasure.

If you don't like doing it, it leaves you in the position of finding the 2% of men who do not care anything about it. This is not a favorable position to be in. The odds are exceedingly against you. But keep in mind that it's always better to know what to do and not need it, than need it and not know what to do. Who knows? One day it may grow on you. (Pun intended.) Now, if you're ready to get your hands dirty, continue to read on.

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Bringing Sexy Back: 5 Ways To Increase Female Libido In Marriage

How to increase the female libido and sexual arousal for more intimacy in your marriage.

Does living with your husband seem more and more like crashing with a roommate than with a spouse? Does it feel like years since you've had some soul-inspiring, body-exploding sexual intimacy in your marriage? When you've been together for a while, it's easy to lose the spark—especially for women. Increasing female libido in marriage can seem like a daunting task. But never fear—sexual arousal is right around the corner. These five tips will help you locate and increase that elusive female libido, so you and your man can succeed in bringing the sexy back into your marriage.

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Can Women Trick Themselves Into Better Sex?

A new clinical trial using a placebo pill says women have better sex by expecting it.

A recent study out of The University of Texas at Austin and Baylor College of Medicine studied 200 women with sexual arousal complaints (low sexual desire, low sexual arousal and problems with orgasm). Out of the 200, 50 were administered placebos in place of libido-inducing medicine. Surprisingly, the scientists found that a third of those taking the placebo marked an increase in sexual arousal and all-around better sexual experiences with more stimulation within four weeks. Needless to say, none of the women's partners were counseled on better sex tips.

Let Spring Fever Rev Up Your Sex Engine

Let Spring Fever Rev Up Your Sex Engine

Spring fever is a real and researched fact. Over thousands and thousands of years, our bodies have innately tuned themselves into the natural rhythms of Mother Nature. There are many other subtle, built-into-your-hardwiring cues that put the pedal to the metal and gets your engine revving.

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Sexual Arousal Oil: Helpful Or Hype?

Elusive orgasm? We put Zestra Essential Arousal Oils to the test.

All women deserve sexual satisfaction, and the good news is there's something on the market that will help you get it—no matter if the culprit is painful intercourse, loss of libido, or difficulty in maintaining arousal or achieving orgasm. (Of course, it's also good for kicking up the kink for any ol' vagina, orgasmically challenged or not.)

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Love Bytes: 4 Signs He's Into You

Signs he's into you, fighting fair, female arousal and the best cities for single men.

Love Bytes: Five must-click sex, love and relationship links. Signs he's into you, fighting fair, female arousal and the best cities for single men.

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Why Strip Clubs Are Good For Marriage

A happily married man explains how an occasional strip club visit helps keep his marriage hot.

Do I bring my stripper-induced sensory overload into the bedroom? You betcha! My wife and I have known one another since college, and over the years we have achieved the perfect blend of familiarity and mystery by sharing fantasies without breaking trust. Though she doesn't bring a director and makeup trailer to bed, I am sure there are some nights after a Mad Men episode that I am the Jon Hamm understudy in one of her fantasies. Sex is not only about love but about play as well, and if she closes her eyes once in a while to pretend she is riding someone's see-saw, that's OK by me.