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Dating/Relationship/Sex Advice - Are You Good in Bed?

Dating/Relationship/Sex Advice - Are You Good in Bed?

How do you rate yourself in the bedroom? Becoming a good lover starts from wanting to be one!

  How would you rate yourself in the bedroom? This is a question we should all ask ourselves and maybe our partner. If you don’t want to hear the answer, chances are, you may not be. Becoming a good lover starts from wanting to be. Have you ever noticed how some people just ooze sensuality by the way they walk, talk, dress, their mannerisms & body language? By showing this sexual confidence, there is a very good chance they are “in tune” to the sensuous side of themselves!

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Can A Couple Be Happy Without Sex? [VIDEO]

Not all couples need sex to succeed, but it sure helps! Find out how to revive your intimacy.

Has your sex life fizzled out? Do you want to restore the sexual intimacy in your relationship? Can you have a healthy marriage without it? 14 Things That Lead To A Sexless Marriage In this video, YourTango expert and marriage educator, Sherry Amatenstein gives some tips on how to get back into the groove of sex. After a lengthy recess in the bedroom, it will be like your first time again! 

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New Online Dating Website Targets Sexless Singles

Introducing 2date4love.com, a new site where singles can court, with no sex strings attached.

Societal pressures say we should consummate our relationships by the third date. But what if you're uninterested in sex, want to wait until you are married, or are physically unable to do the deed? It can be hard to find (and keep) a date for those who want loving relationships without physical intimacy. But not anymore: 2date4love.com is the online dating site for you if you count yourself among the sexless.

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Has Sex And The City Decreased Sex In The Home?

Did Samantha Jones' sexual exploits discourage real women from hitting the sheets?

Why is being sexless so trendy? Oh, let's blame Samantha. The Observer blamed the rise of Facebook and the fact that we live in public on the fact that young people are no longer terribly interested in sex, Erica Jong claims that young women place more emphasis on monogamy and motherhood.

Week #21--Sexless Soccer Mom?

Week #21--Sexless Soccer Mom?

My sexless future flashed before my eyes. Trying to fit sex in while carting kids at least four nights a week; with my husband playing hockey four nights a week; on top of everything else that needs to get done in a week.

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She Wants Sex, He Doesn't

Is it possible to make it work with a sexless guy?

I've dated several guys who, from what I can tell, have a take it or leave it attitude toward sex, with an emphasis on leaving it. Why, you may ask, did I, someone who writes about sex almost every day, wind up with them? I don't really know, but I did. And the worst part about it is not the physical withdrawal; I'm not the kind of girl who needs to do it every day (though that would be nice). The worst part is the feeling of rejection that cuts really, really close to home. When I experience that, it's like taking all the fears I have about my attractiveness and boiling them into one pointed barb: you're not pretty/sexy/fun/cool/hot/exciting enough to f**k.

Why There's No Vampire Sex in Twilight

Why There's No Vampire Sex in Twilight

Gawker wants Bella and Edward in the Twilight series to screw, already, dammit!

Counting down the days until the Twilight premiere? I am, too, and I'm enjoying all the media attention the books and movie are getting. But a recent Gawker post about the Stephenie Meyer series ticked me off. In "Vampire Chastity Belts: Anticipation for Sex That Never Comes is the Highlight of Twilight," blogger Alex Carnavale complains that the lack of sex in the book series is unrealistic, especially since the two main characters pine over each other for hundreds and hundreds and hundres of pages.

Virginity = Productivity?

Virginity = Productivity?

Do virgins like Jane Austen get more done?

Despite the "quite a bit of sex" smeared on [Jane Austen's] life and work by the biopic Becoming Jane and virtually all the recent screen adaptations (notably the obnoxious Mansfield Park), the author of Pride and Prejudice (invariably voted best ever English novel) died intacta. All six of her major heroines are as virginal on the last page as they were on the first. Does the fact that Austen "never had it" make her a greater, or lesser, writer? Is chastity the enemy of literary genius?... Why cannot we accept that there is sexless greatness as well as hyper-sexual greatness? Jane Austen was a plain Jane. If she'd looked like Kate Winslet, and had as much glorious sex as Jordan, we would not - I fancy - have those wonderful novels.

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No Sex Please, We’re English

British men are starting to suffer from low sex drive, what's the cause?

According to a recent survey, British men are 'off sex.' Men in their 30's through 50's are, per a survey, having less sex than ever. What's causing this no sex insurrection?

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No Sex Please, We’re Japanese

According to a survey, Japanese couples are not doing it very often.

The population in Japan is aging rapidly. Technically, they age at the same rate as everyone else, but they're having fewer children so the average age is increasing. One big reason is lack of sex. According to a recent survey 25% of married Japanese couples haven't had sex in the last year.

No Sex? The Rx

Reasons you’re not getting any, and how to remedy the situation.

You may have read Genevieve’s recent “sexless marriage” post; cnn.com has run a pretty thorough companion piece worth mentioning. The basis for their “Surprising Reasons You’re Not Having Sex” article is this stat: “Women today have less time for sex than their 1950s counterparts. And it's estimated that 40 million Americans have what experts call a sexless marriage (having sex less than 10 times a year).” Okay, that does not sound good. Check out the article for common problems, such as body-image issues (duh), to not-so-common, like you’re bedroom’s way too boring (huh).