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SEX AFTER KIDS

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If you love someone, there is no excuse for cheating. Right?

What Guys Think Links: Can You Love Someone If You Cheat On Them?

And, how to get him to stop watching porn. Good luck with that.

If you love someone, there is no excuse for cheating on them... Right? What sex is really like after having a baby. How to get him to quit porn. Don't focus on your guy's shortcomings. What he really thinks after a first date. What happens when sex makes her say things she doesn't mean? If your guy is a tad immature, cut him some slack. Guess what, being a little juvenile, here and there, is a great trait in a man. Harrumph.

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"It's better to know it and not need it than to need it and not know it!"

Oral Sex 101: What You Need To Know [EXPERT]

What a man really wants out of oral pleasure.

If you don't like doing it, it leaves you in the position of finding the 2% of men who do not care anything about it. This is not a favorable position to be in. The odds are exceedingly against you. But keep in mind that it's always better to know what to do and not need it, than need it and not know what to do. Who knows? One day it may grow on you. (Pun intended.) Now, if you're ready to get your hands dirty, continue to read on.

The Ultimate Internet Sex Site For Couples - Period!

The Ultimate Internet Sex Site For Couples - Period!

Do you want to learn the science-proven secrets to having a truly great sex life?

As your Pro-Marriage Counselor it’s my duty to inform you of the best online sex site for couples; not just on the internet but on the whole planet! It’s got the coolest videos, articles and sex-questionnaires you’ve ever seen online. No, it’s not a kinky or even sleazy porn site. Besides, those lead to relationship-interfering sex and cyber addictions anyway. This site is actually designed and delivered by 2 of the world’s leading relationship experts.

Ryan and Trista Sutter

In Bed With Trista And Ryan Sutter

Trista Sutter talks about the The K-Y® Brand Intimacy Experiment, marriage, kids and sex.

Everyone who's been in a long-term relationship knows that sex goes from sizzle to fizzle after a couple years. In this interview we talk with Trista Sutter about her and Ryan's participation in The K-Y® Brand Intimacy Experiment, and how they keep their marriage sexy after kids.

HPV Shot: Promoting Protection or Promiscuity?

HPV Shot: Promoting Protection or Promiscuity?

Before this, she felt peer pressure from her mommy group not to give her daughter the HPV shot.

It was a disturbing phone call. Usually cool, calm and collected, my friend was in tears and on the verge of losing it. “I just came from my OBGYN…I need to get my uterus removed. How is it going to affect my sexuality?” Good question and something she should be concerned about. A few days later my friend told me the entire story. She contracted HPV and ended up with high grade cervical cancer cells which, eventually, let to a hysterectomy.

World AIDS Day 2011
World AIDS Day 2011

Why Understanding World AIDS Day Is Important

I almost didn't write a blog about World AIDS day…knowing that too many people would pass it over.

I almost didn’t write a blog about World’s AID day…knowing that too many people would pass it over. Uninterested because it's a been there, done that topic.

What about the man's sexual needs?

What about the man's sexual needs?

Men think—from their porno-sex-ed and general socialization— pleasing a woman means: (1) a big penis; (2) lasting a long time during intercourse; (3) making her orgasm. These things are probably NOT what the average gal is looking for in the sexual experience. In fact, she’s probably craves something very different.

Why is his vasectomy my responsibility?

Why is his vasectomy my responsibility?

As I limped ‘blue balled’ to read a book in bed, I said to my husband in frustration, “You know if you were fixed, we could be having sex right now.” Equally as frustrated he replied, “What’s wrong with using a condom?” “I’m ovulating today and I don’t want to take any chances. The condom could break.”

Sex talk at a mom's book club

Sex talk at a mom's book club

I was invited to a mom’s book club who were (bless them) reviewing my book, Till Sex Do Us Part: Make Your Married Sex Irresistible. It was a range of moms who had babies up to 20 year-old kids. Inevitably the conversation went to girl’s sexuality.

Frozen Muffin Moments and Sex

Frozen Muffin Moments and Sex

And so, it seems, the quality of our sex lives hangs in the balance of these ordinary life moments that have little to nothing to do with sex.