Armed with statistics that prove a growing number of women are watching porn, Oprah Winfrey's Tuesday show was dedicated to finding out why. (Um, because women enjoy sex too?) Much of the reporting was done by Lisa Ling, while Oprah mostly squirmed uncomfortably in her chair. Porn: When It Helps & When It Hurts

One of Oprah's guests was Jenna Jameson, still the world's biggest porn star despite the fact that she retired five years ago. Aside from worrying what she will one day tell her twin sons about their mommy's former career, Jenna told Oprah … Read More

The jig is up. Belle de Jour, the former prostitute behind the popular column "Diary of a London Call Girl" and TV series "Secret Diary of a Call Girl" is really British research scientist Dr. Brooke Magnanti, 34. Dr. Magnanti gave the oldest reason for turning to the oldest profession -- to pay for her PhD.  Lemondrop: Text Message Analysis Leads to PhD

She came forward now allegedly out of fear that an ex-boyfriend might out her. Not even her literary agent knew who she really was.

"It was time. I've felt so much guardedness and paranoia about remaining anonymous recently," … Read More

If traditional online dating sites like Match.com and OKCupid are too detached and cold—what with their prude winks and snoozy, nice-to-meet-you messages—you may be in luck. Why not give adult virtual dating a try? Online Dating For Real Geeks Only

With RedLightSocialCenter.com you can hop into the cartoon body of a porn star, mingle in sex clubs with other singles and even instruct your Double-D breasted avatar to hop on stage and perform a strip tease for your future soul mate sitting behind his computer. What's more old-school romantic then that? Virtually Getting To Know … Read More

It's Friday and that means it's time to take a few minutes away from work to get your love & relationships on. I'm Tom Miller, and I'll be your guide this lovely morning.

First up, it appears that the verdict is in: we are not going to judge men dating younger women. Whew. The crew at The Frisky list 11 reasons why YOU should get in on the older man action. Getting someone's social security check was not mentioned.

Lemondrop highlights a terrible case of fraud—the poor woman had no idea it was fake, and when she found out, … Read More

First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes decades of time together strewn with a minefield of potential relationship wreckers. It's a wonder that anyone ends up walking off into the sunset, hand-in-wrinkled-hand, with a silver-haired mate. What do those geriatric lovebirds know that you don't?

Well, the truth is that even in so-called happy marriages, both partners probably fantasize some of the time—or even much of the time—about throwing in the towel. A new Woman's Day and AOL Living poll found that a shocking 72 percent of women surveyed have considered leaving their husbands at some point. But despite the … Read More

I'm married and monogamous, but not yet ready to have children. So—since neither my husband nor I like the feel of condoms during sex (it dulls his sensitivity, and I just love the warmth of skin rubbing against skin)—we rely on The Pill as our main method of birth control to keep us baby-free.

I've been taking Yaz for a couple years now, which also helps with my PMDD (also known as that crazy, dark, slightly psychotic half that emerges from the shadows every month or so). Then, the other day, I read this scary-as-hell story about how Yaz … Read More

Cougars at thirty?Okay so what is the definition of a cougar today? I thought that a cougar was considered a ruthless and lusty woman in her late forties or fifties, someome who is out prowling for young rich men to devour and give spankings to. I also thought that thirty is now to be considered the new twenty.If a woman is in her late tewnties approaching thirty is she considered an old crone allready or is she still being seen as a young vibrant thang to be … Read More

Sexual dry spells happen to everyone. One day you're loved up; the next you're single, alone and Mapquesting nearby nunneries. Welcome to your secondary virginity, a dry spell of Sahara proportions.

The good news? Almost every dry-speller we spoke to said that celibacy—voluntary or not—was a valuable growth experience, helping some feel more confident while others relished the surplus of "me time." And surely that's worth more than, say, sleeping with one of these dudes. 

We discovered three main types of dry spells and spoke with survivors for insight. Lemondrop: Does Any Woman Have To Lose Weight To Get Lucky?

Type … Read More

Thanksgiving is a sexy holiday, and Thanksgiving dinner, a sexy meal. Say what?

It shouldn't come as a surprise that a woman's body image is linked to her sexual habits. But a new study done at the University of Pittsburgh among teenage girls offers some eye-opening figures as to how the woman we see in the mirror affects our sex lives.