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Have you run out of ways to be romantic? Try some of these romantic gestures.
So you want to do something special for your beloved, but you're stumped for ideas. Whether you want a gesture that's creative, outrageous, affordable, quick or classic, we've got the answer.
Creative
Looking for some fun ways to add romance to your relationship? Try these creative romance tips:
1. Give your lover a dozen roses—and do it with a creative twist. Give eleven red roses and one white rose. Attach a note that reads: "In every bunch there's one who stands out—and you are that one."
2. Fake a power outage at home. (Loosen the fuses or throw the breaker switches.) With no TV … Read More
Avatar star Zoe Saldana is into booze, shagging.
Zoe Saldana tells the April issue of Essence magazine that she really likes having sex, which does not surprise us at all, as she's young, gorgeous, and, as we saw in Center Stage, very flexible. "Love it, love it, love it—can't live without it! I love sex," she said. "I love skin. I don't believe the body is something to hide." Well, how nice for her boyfriend, Keith Britton!
Zoe also said in the April issue of Glamour, where she, along with Amanda Seyfried and Leighton Meester, was one of three cover girls, that this year … Read More
Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, answers a question from Ask YourTango, where readers seek out advice on love and relationships. In this segment, Gray helps a woman interpret her man's non-verbal signals to determine what he likes in bed.
For more on Dr. John Gray, visit MarsVenusLiving.com. Weigh in on the original question. And, if you have your own relationship conundrum that needs to be solved, head on over to http://www.yourtango.com/questions.
Is sexual anorexia the flip side of sex addiction? We asked the experts.
Can you compare our desire for sexual intimacy to, say, our need for food? And, if so, is sexual anorexia the opposite of sex addiction?
Believe it or not, even though "lack of sex" isn't an official cause of death, experts are divided on this issue. The question recently popped up in the New York Times: A reader asked whether willingly "starving yourself" with too little sex is a real disorder (not just something that happens when you're too depressed to leave your house because you've just been dumped, it's snowing and Real Housewives of Dallas is on. Why isn't … Read More
How one woman chose, and enjoyed, to be dominated.
I texted him as soon as I woke up.
"What do you want me to wear today?"
I brushed my teeth and washed my face while I waited for him to text me back.
"White button-down shirt. Tuck it in. Your jeans. Flats. Put your hair in a ponytail. Send me a photo."
I dressed as instructed, then stood before the wall-length mirror in my apartment's hallway. Smiling into the mirror, I snapped a photo on my iPhone and sent it to Ben*.
Thirty seconds later, a text message: "Very nice." Then I knew I could leave for work.
Ben was not abusive. … Read More
It seems one out of four Americans are too tired to have sex and would rather sleep.
Sigh. It's been another long day and your feet hurt. By the time the TV is off, the dishes are washed, and you've donned a pair of baggy sweatpants, the only thing on your mind is making love.
To your pillow, that is.
Well, we know the feeling, and according to a recent study by the National Sleep Foundation one in four Americans who are married or living with someone do too. Yes, that's right; nearly 25 percent of the population is so sleep-deprived that they frequently find themselves skimping on sex in favor of slumber. Sleep: The … Read More
Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity, answers a question from Ask YourTango, where readers go to seek out advice on love and relationships. In this segment, a man asks if he should leave his 42-year-old girlfriend, who is a virgin and afraid to have sex. While she has been going to therapy for years, she remains unable to take that final step, and keeps telling her man that things will get better. But will they ever change? Perel explores the possible causes of such a phobia, and imparts some valuable advice. The 36-Year-Old Virgin
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Bravo TV star Kelly Cutrone wants women to know: shopping for adult toys is healthy and fun!
Tonight, Bravo will air their latest episode of Kell on Earth, in which Kelly Cutrone takes a trip to Babeland, one of our absolute favorite (sex) toy shops. Bravo initially wasn't going to air that segment of the episode—supposedly because it didn't fit in seamlessly with the storyline—but Cutrone put her foot down and some quick editing was done. Because everyone's favorite fashion PR guru wanted women to know: shopping for sex toys is fine…and fun! The Best Sex Toys for Singles
Cutrone tells Babeland, "Our show is about women and power, and now housewives are going … Read More
Asking your boss for sex clearly crosses the line from work flirting to sexual harassment.
A female police officer in Australia was recently fired for begging a number of her colleagues for sex. Apparently, within mere days of starting work, Jessica Parfrey propositioned her supervisor. When he turned her down, she was incredulous, responding with, "Can't we just f***? I am a 19-year-old girl, what is wrong with you?" She also offered several other coworkers oral sex, and harassed another via text message, later offering "to help him study for his police exams by stripping off an item of clothing for every question he got correct."All of these men turned Parfrey down, and … Read More
Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity, answers a question from Ask YourTango, where readers go to seek out advice on love and relationships. In this segment, a YourTango reader asks whether it's normal for sexual frequency to wane when in a committed relationship. Perel assures us that it is, indeed, normal, and tells us why. Newlywed Sex Tips (We All Can Use)
For more on Esther Perel, visit her website. To connect with other relationship experts, visit YourTango.com/ProConnect. Do you disagree with the advice she gave, or just want to weigh in? Click Read More