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Aphrodisiacs: Top 5 Foods of Love To Ignite Lust In Your Man!

Aphrodisiacs: Top 5 Foods of Love To Ignite Lust In Your Man!

Provocative peek: 5 must-have foods to put your lover in the mood from Culinary Expert Zoe Rogers

Aphrodisiacs: Top 5 Foods of Love To Ignite Lust In Your Man! By Zoe Rogers Believe it or not, your kitchen dishes up a world of romance, with all the main food groups: Lust, stimulation, potency, virility, seduction and pleasure. Any sensualist’s diet should include these 5 aphrodisiacs on their menu:

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Have you ever had sex in an elevator?

50 Ways To Improve Your Sexual Connection Tonight

Sexy tips from Jamye Waxman, author of new book "Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight."

In celebration of my latest book, Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight, I've decided to round up 50 sexy or sex-filled things that you can do — easily. Well, depending on the kids and time, and without much prep, to help keep things cayenne-pepper hot in the sexy time department. And I want you to add to the list too, please!

Satisfy Him Without Going All The Way

Satisfy Him Without Going All The Way

How to keep things HOT (and both of you happy) without doin' the deed...

Most of the time we have no problem getting it on with our significant other. But once in a while there may be something preventing you from doing the deed. Maybe you're hugely pregnant or post-partum. Maybe you're injured. Perhaps Aunt Flo's in town or there's just no birth control on hand. It can be tempting to just roll over and go to sleep, but according to sex expert, Jaiya, author of Red Hot Touch and founder of New World Sex Education--staying sexually close, even when you can't go all the way--is important.

How to Seduce a Man

How to Seduce a Man

The reason a man falls in love is how you make him feel about himself.

What I mean by seduction is not to strip off his clothes and jump him. Rather, it’s the subtle dance of love that is so delicious. It’s this dance that can cause a man to fall in love with you and know he’s found the woman of his dreams.There’s a reason the call it the ‘art of seduction.’

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Why Women Love To Flirt With Men They Don't Like

Why do some women flirt with everyone—even men they don't like?

Why do some women flirt with everyone—even men they don't like? Our writer explains: "It all started when I was an awkward, mercilessly ugly 12-year-old. And then I discovered what would drastically alter the direction of my life: a stack of Playboys in my step-grandfather's closet. I could master the art of the smoldering stare. I could pout my lips and trail my finger across my chest. I could do this! That day, a flirt was born."

Community: Why Don't Men Understand Seduction?

Community: Why Don't Men Understand Seduction?

I have always been perplexed at why so many men do not get seduction. Consequently, I went in search of what seduction education is available to men. I hunted high and low in books, on the internet and in magazines, for information on how men are supposed to seduce women. I was appalled to find these materials had little or nothing to do with female seduction. Instead, they were full of tidbits on sexual technique—which is quite different from seduction technique.

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Is Your Home Guy Friendly?

Simple, inexpensive ways to make your home guy-friendly.

When you bring your new love interest to your pad, you want to make a good first impression. But who has the time or resources these days? Never fear—a few minor adjustments can help your new guy feel right at home without compromising your bank account or your personal style. From living room to bedroom, tips on making your house or apartment guy friendly.

Community Blog: Is Seduction Worth The Effort?

Community Blog: Is Seduction Worth The Effort?

Since Valentine’s Day is synonymous with seduction, I thumbed through some books on the art of seduction at the bookstore. One book suggested I dress in lingerie and have a friend take pictures of me. Then, after developing the film (um, I am going to take this film to what photo lab?), I should slip the picture into my partner’s lunch box or briefcase.

The Last Seduction

The Last Seduction

A man on the street accidentally winked at me.  He must have had something in his eye, I know the wink wasn’t for me.  But it got me thinking.  I miss flirting.  I miss the fine art of seduction.  I miss feeling the dizzying chemistry between me and a man linger long enough for the tension to swell.  I long for the days when men wanted to work a little harder to get a gal’s attention and women knew how to beguile.  Back when the journey to bed was almost as intoxicating as the arrival.  

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How To Seduce Difficult Women

French seduction tips from the director of a new film about helping American men get game.

Certain men—gays and hairstylists among them—have a particularly astute handle on what women want. Richard Temtchine, who is decidedly not the former but who was, for 22 years, the latter, is one of these men—and he's translated this insight into his new film, How To Seduce Difficult Women, opening in New York City on Friday. The Paris-born Temtchine wrote, directed and produced the film, which follows Philippe, a married Frenchman living in New York, as he instructs hapless American men in the art of seduction, while sustaining ample practice himself with various mistresses. Temtchine came up with the idea after running into an acquaintance who struck him as a particularly difficult woman, and realizing he had the tools to make her soften, if not melt.