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How to fix a loud kisser??

I am seeing this guy but whenever we kiss his kissing is pretty loud. He is not a sloppy kisser or anything but it is just very loud (like he is chewing a large piece of gum) Is there anything that I can do to make our kissing less obvious???

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How do men feel about sexy underwear?

Every time I have a hot date setup with a guy I break my brain thinking about what I should wear under my clothes. Is matching underwear too much? Is wearing a thong or g-string trying too hard? Would he care if I wore pink heart pattern boy shorts? Is cotton not caring enough? Is lace trying too hard? Is red too much? White, too innocent? Black, too safe?

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What can I do about no libido?

I moved in with my fiance a little over a year ago after we dated for 2 years. When we first moved in together, we couldn't have enough of each other. Then a few months later our sex life began dwindling. Now it mostly seems like a chore for me to have sex with him. I love him to no end but I can never seem to get in the mood. Role playing doesn't help, porn doesn't help, using "toys" doesn't help either. I just can't seem to get horny anymore.

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does my partner/wife genuinely love me

My wife and I been maried for almost two years. Before we got married we were lovers for a long time. We were palyers as well. I had plenty women and was still cheating when we got married. She may have cut all ties but im not a 100% sure. She caught me out there a number of times and i think she started cheating herself (whether it was physical, I dont know). We soon later had a baby and while she was pregnant i was still cheating and didnt have sex w/her.

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Anyone Else Successfully Made It Through a REALLY Rough Patch?

The details.... okay, well, I'm just some dude. My wife's going through something of her own, something I don't fully understand. I'm trying to hold space for her. We've been married 15 years, together 20+. As far as I'm concerned, she's my soul mate. I love her more than anything, ever. She used to be *so* madly in love with me. I mean, sure, we had rough patches, good times & bad like anyone else. But, I always thought we were a permanent team, like an institution or something. I see her as my best friend, confidante, lover, partner in life ...

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How can my partner overcome a commitment issue?

My partner and I have been together for almost 3 years. We officially broke up in April but around May/June time frame we working things out and got back together. Things are much better than before but just recently I told her the I told her neighbors that we are back together. She just recently freaked out and told me that we are not together and she has a huge commitment issue. She has been married twice, she divorce them both. She doesn't like the labeling part....ie girlfriend. She feels trapped.

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Should I be THIS self concious about my body?

I was in a relationship that lasted 8 years and recently ended. I had a baby and gained a TON of weight. The weight is now gone. HOWEVER, I'm so insecure about what my body now looks like that the prospect of re-entering the dating scene and potentially being physical with some one new has me seriously considering being single for the rest of my life. I'm 31, BTW.

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why can't I overcome jelousy?

I got married at the age of 18 to my high school sweetheart. Due to my parents upbringing, I was a very naive girl. I've been married for 14 years. I am now 32 years old with 2 boys. Through-out my entire relationship with my husband, I have been a jelous person. About 4 years ago, my husband confessed that had been unfaithful to me for about 2 years. He ofcourse appologized and I decided to forgive him, but I cannot forget what he did. This news ofcourse devestated me and I feel like it increased my jelous mindset.

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Virgin for Life??

My boyfriend and I have tried to have sex like, a billion times, but we just can't! I can only think about the pain and he's trying so hard to calm me down that he can't stay up and then he wants me to do reverse missionary which i am totally against because he thinks it'll be easier but i can't... help? advice? I just want us to be happy in every way...

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How do I bring the love back into my relationship?

My husband & I have been married for 5 years. We have a 3 1/2 year old son and a 2 year old son. My husband snores - which makes it very difficult to sleep with him - so, I've taken to sleeping with my kids in their Queen bed - just to ensure that I get a good night's sleep. My husband has an apnea machine - but won't use it. My husband also has low testosterone levels - but won't use the medication because it's too expensive. He NEVER gives me compliments or ever says anything nice or appreciative to me.