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Are Strip Clubs Really A Relationship Threat?
Get ready for some sexy fun.

Are Strip Clubs Really A Relationship Threat?

Strip clubs aren't the scary places you imagine.

This is a blog post by a member of the YourTango community. This post has not been edited by the YourTango staff, nor does it represent the opinons of YourTango and its employees. Last Spring in the beginning stage of a new relationship, I joined a group of friends (two couples and one single gal) on an adventure to the world renowned Sin City; Las Vegas.  Everyone going had already seen its' glory but me, so I gave fair warning that I would be making the most of our getaway, and the fun would begin on the plane over.  Needless to say, by the time we lan

Would You Date a Guy Who Is Broke?

Would You Date a Guy Who Is Broke?

Your date is broke as a joke. Is that a dealbreaker ? Can you see 'the guy' past the empty pockets?

Admit it, ladies. You'd love to fly off on a private jet for a weekend in Paris with a handsome date who pays for that bottle of Dom with his platinum AMEX. But in this economy, it's much more likely that your new man's as broke as a joke--and maybe even unemployed. Is that a dealbreaker for you? Or can you find a way to successfully date on an empty wallet? Related: Are Women Only Into Good Looking Men?

Secrets to Not Having Secrets About Money

Secrets to Not Having Secrets About Money

How to be honest with your partner and come out alive ... and more loved.

When you get down to what separates great, long-lasting partnerships from ones that start with the best intentions but fizzle out over time, there are a few very basic rules and behaviors that while seemingly common sense, most people don't have a clue about. The truth is that we can all use a boost in our E.L.Q. ... our emotional intelligence when it comes to navigating the waves of our most intimate love relationships (a.k.a. your Emotional Love Quotient.)

First Date: Who Pays for Dinner?

First Date: Who Pays for Dinner?

For many, the symbolism behind who pays is a really big deal!

Lisa’s heart longs to dine at her favorite upscale restaurant. Not wanting to go there with friends or alone she has not been there since her divorce three years ago. Working long hours lately as a corporate executive she is excited about a night on the town. She hopes her special restaurant will be the perfect place for her and her new friend to get to know each other. She suggests they meet there at 8pm next Friday and she will make the reservations since it is hard to get in and they know her.

engagement ring resting on pile of money

We're Through. Should I Sell The Engagement Ring?

Practical guidance on what to do with your engagement ring post-breakup.

When Mr. "I think he's the one!" turns into Mr. "Bullet Dodged," what do you do with the rock left behind? You may love bling, but you don't want to wear the karma of relationships past on your finger. Sometimes, the only reasonable thing to do is to sell that bad boy, but selling a diamond is more complicated than unloading that treadmill you bought last January and never used.

Should Women Pay On 1st Date?

Should Women Pay On 1st Date?

Ladies, Cosmo did a poll and it appears that 57% of us ladies think it's okay for us to reach into our wallets on the first date? Crazy! Sorry, I think a 57% of us need to allow a man to court us. With recession and pedicures only lasting 2 weeks it's nice to be treated right? I'm an independent woman and I pay all my bills and everything I want I buy myself but I still don't move a finger when the tab hits the table on the first date. I appreciate when a man courts me and shows me a good time at his expense. If I wanted to go dutch I would hang out with the chicas. On a date? This b---- is getting a free meal and drinks. What do you ladies think?

Kate Gosselin divorce

Kate Gosselin Talks About Her Thieving Husband

Kate on Today Show: "I can't sleep at night. I can't pay my bills"

Kate Gosselin went on The Today Show this morning to discuss the weekend's latest Jon-is-a-jerk news, that he emptied out a joint money market account the couple used for household expenses, leaving her with only $1,000.