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Growing Up as an Adult
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Growing Up as an Adult

“Miracles do happen,” wrote Chaim Weizman , the first President of Israel “but one has to work very hard for them.” To grow up and out of a painful, dysfunctional past and all its leftovers—feelings, memories, pain, confusion, anger, fear, and persistent dysfunctional relationship patterns— may seem like a miracle, too wonderful to be possible. But it can be done, if you have the right tools and support. The purpose of It Ends With You is to lead you from the problems of the past into a satisfying, joyful, and successful future.

The Act of Service and Love
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The Act of Service and Love

Have you ever lost a relationship because of something that you didn’t do? Did your relationship end because one party didn’t feel appreciated? Most of us begrudgingly walk around the house doing “chores” because we have to. How many of us actually commit acts of service though? Have you ever tried thinking about the things that you do as a way of showing your feelings rather than chores?

The Cost of Staying With a Toxic Bad Boy
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The Cost of Staying With a Toxic Bad Boy

"Jane" is working with me to get over an abusive ex-boyfriend. They broke up a year ago, and she can't stop thinking about Mr. Toxic Bad Boy. The sex was hot. She fell in love quickly. He came on strong at first, and then dropped her like a hot potato when she began to express what she needed in the relationship. She was heartbroken.

Showing Love Through Touch
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Showing Love Through Touch

When I say touch I’m not referring to touch of a sexual nature either. Touching each other is a way to communicate feelings in addition to your words. Think about how much a simple hug can do for you. Some people are naturals at the art of touching and some need to put some effort into it. If you are the type of person who is a natural at expressing your feelings through touch, you will probably find that touch is something that is also very important to you.

Relationships Problems: How To Stay Committed In Your Marriage
Boredom in a marriage can lead to an early itch.
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Has The Three-Year Itch Become The New Seven-Year Itch?

There is no need for you compare your now to the back then. It's only going to start trouble within your relationship. Doubting the love connection in your relationship is the king of relationship problems! If you want to shake the burdensome idea of a deficient relationship, this article by Dr Kristin Davin will help you cope with your emotions.

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Has The Sex In Your Relationship Just Gone Bad?

When your once active love and sex life begin to take a turn for the worse, is there any way of saving your relationship? In this video, Relationship expert Matthew Walters is joined by YourTango marriage experts Esther Perel, Lesli Doares, Cynthia Chestnut and Elisabeth LaMotte to touch on the nitty gritty reasons why the feelings of love and intimacy shared between you and your partner sometimes change.