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Why Do Married Men Pay For Sex? [EXPERT]
Is your husband up to no good?

Why Do Married Men Pay For Sex?

Do you suspect your husband is hiring hookers?

When a husband loses his connection with his wife, he will begin to feel alone and seek out the emotional intimacy through sex that he will pay for through in a call girl, strip clubs or other women.

Life After Divorce: How To Move On

Life After Divorce: How To Move On

Learn how to take life after divorce head on, move past the hurt and take control of your life again

For most women the end of a marriage feels like starting life completely over from scratch. So although it might feel strange, divorce can ultimately become the “best, worst thing” that ever happens. And, armed with that mindset, life after divorce can signal a new beginning. One day, your marriage will be a thing of your past; even though you may share things like children, pets, homes, and in some cases financial responsibilities, you will be able to move past it.

The Dos & Don't Of Blending Friends & Family

The Dos & Don't Of Blending Friends & Family

With "chosen families" you can offer comfort in life's difficult times and celebrate successes.

Many years ago an Edwin Markham poem inspired me, and I’ve tried to live by it: "Outwitted" He drew a circle that shut me out — Heretic, rebel, a thing to flout. But Love and I had the wit to win: We drew a circle that took him in!

Why Hasn't He Called?

Why Hasn't He Called?

As infuriating as it is when he doesn't call, here's the only explanation and response that matter.

Of all the questions I'm asked, the most common one is about what to do when he hasn't called. There's something about that unfinished business, about being left hanging without an explanation that leaves even the most confident of us wondering what we did wrong, and whether or not we should try to contact him to elicit some kind of an answer.

Things to Think About Before Moving In With Your Partner

Things to Think About Before Moving In With Your Partner

There are many things to consider before moving in together. Romance without finance is a nuisance!

In the good ole days, marriage came before moving in together. While there are some couples that still recognize and believe in this tradition, many other couples have no problem with testing the waters before putting a ring on it. Whether you agree with living together before marriage or not, it's becoming much more acceptable these days. However, there is a right way and a wrong way to go about it. Jumping into this type of commitment unprepared is the quickest way to put a potentially great relationship onto the rocks prematurely.

 Things I Wish I Had Known About Being Female & Single.

Things I Wish I Had Known About Being Female & Single.

If I knew then what I know now I'd do a lot of things differently. Maybe you can learn from it.

      I wish I had known how spectacular females are, and then honored myself as one among them. Males love the company of females. The most important thing in a relationship is that HE really gets YOU and vice versa. Really getting someone requires only that each person pay close attention and listen deeply. Finding someone who really understands you, is like finding a gem in the ocean.

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Our exclusive interview with love expert Tony Gaskins.

Tony Gaskins: 'Women Are Made For Love, Men Must Be Taught Love'

Author, speaker, screenwriter and producer Tony Gaskins dishes on love, life and finding Mrs. Right.

After checking out Tony Gaskins Jr.'s five-star app iLifeCoach, his collection of well-received books on Amazon, including "Mrs. Right: A Woman's Guide To Becoming And Remaining A Wife," and hearing about his appearances on "Oprah" and The "Tyra Banks Show," you'd never have guessed that the man so confident and comfortable in his role as a champion for faith and family values is only 28 years old.

Dating The Insecure Woman & The Secure Woman? Part 2

Dating The Insecure Woman & The Secure Woman? Part 2

Insecurity is a character trait that if not managed properly will suffocate the man of your dreams.

continued from part 1 Excessive calls to his place of employment What are you trying to do? Get him fired? Now your man cannot pay his phone bill or even his rent, because you assisted in getting him fired. Now he must move in with you because you overextended yourself with phone calls to his job.

Labor Of Love: 4 Tips On Dating A Busy Person

Labor Of Love: 4 Tips On Dating A Busy Person

Is my date really that busy? Why timing is everything plus 4 tips on how to woo a busy professional.

Have you ever dated someone who is always on the go? Maybe they were focused on their career, worked long hours or travelled a lot for work. Whatever the case may be, they had a full schedule and finding time to go on a date with them seems virtually impossible. Before you count them out, here are some things you might want to take into consideration. When the economy tanked, the job market became unbelievably competitive. It caused a lot of people to shift their priorities and the mindset became to find a job, keep a job or become an entrepreneur.

10 Pros & Cons Of Online Dating [EXPERT]
Are you looking for love online?

10 Pros & Cons Of Online Dating

Trying to decide whether to delve into online dating? We can help you work it out.

The advances in technology in the last 20 years have changed society and culture. One of the areas of our lives where these technological transformations have been especially striking is in the dating scene. Use of the Internet has changed the way we date, offering both positive and negative consequences.

Maybe You're The Reason Your Relationship Is Dull [EXPERT]
Does your relationship look like this?

Maybe You're The Reason Your Relationship Is Dull

Boring relationship? 3 things to consider.

After moving in with her boyfriend Eric one year ago, following their college graduation, Emily, who is 25 years-old and working as a film editor's assistant, plopped herself down on my couch and complained of boredom. She wondered if she was in the wrong relationship because she didn't feel that spark of excitement anymore when she saw Eric after work.