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The ABCs of Ex Etiquette
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The ABCs of Ex Etiquette

Think you can stay friends with your ex and still move on after a breakup? Think again. Most people who try to stay friends with their ex are just doing so in hopes of either rekindling the relationship or using the other person as a crutch until someone better comes along. What happens when it’s the other person who moves on first? Ouch!

Boohoo Crew 101: Heartbreak help
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Boohoo Crew 101: Heartbreak help

To successfully survive and thrive after a breakup, savvy breakup survivors know that they can’t heal and move on without a little help from their friends. And that’s where the Boohoo Crew comes in. Part cheerleader, part therapist, your Boohoo Crew should be reliable, patient, and consist of at least three friends for round-the-clock supervision and support.

Heal your heart in just 21 days
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Heal your heart in just 21 days

Conventional wisdom says it takes just 21 days to establish a new habit. So what if that new habit involves getting over a breakup? Is it possible to exorcise your ex, clear your head, and heal your heart in just 3 weeks? In my workbook It's a Breakup, Not a Breakdown Workbook: A 21-Day Action Plan to Plot Your Revenge, Spoil Yourself, and Find Out How Good Your Life Is Without Him, I walk you step by step through your breakup recovery.

The ABCs of Reuniting with Your Ex
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The ABCs of Reuniting with Your Ex

After a relationship ends, it's all too easy to second-guess the decision to split up. And while reconsidering doesn't necessarily mean you should reunite, what happens if you and your ex DO decide you'd like to give the relationship another go? Maybe the time away from one another has shown you the error of your ways. Perhaps you've each had time to assess what went wrong and are now committed to a fresh start. However, before you rush into reuniting, think about these important factors...

Wow! Aren't We the Lucky Ones???
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Wow! Aren't We the Lucky Ones???

I believe there is a secret to a happy marriage. It's easy. Find the magic, celebrate it like a six year old on Christmas everyday. Look for the party and show up for each other. Be that couple that makes other people roll their eyes and wish you'd get a room. If you aren't living the fantasy quite yet, pretend you are and party on. And - and this is maybe most important as if your life depends on it, look for the very best in him - because your life may not depend on it, but your love certainly does.

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Together Forever But Not Married? Advice You Need

A 2006 Pew Research study found that about a quarter of unmarried Americans (23 million) say they are in unmarried committed romantic relationships. A slice of this population is what I dub "a little bit married": They live together, go on each other's family vacations and own pets together, but aren't yet engaged. In my new book, A Little Bit Married: How to Know When It's Time to Walk Down The Aisle or Out the Door, I conclude that "a little bit married" (ALBM) is a recent cultural phenomenon, taking place especially among college-educated, upwardly mobile, twenty- and thirty-somethings.