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The Colors of You
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The Colors of You

As life develops, many of us have an urge to focus on the deeper issues—our dreams and goals, and our emotional and spiritual development. When this happens, life gradually becomes more about meaning and satisfaction and less about obligations and accomplishments. As you mature, you can focus on living the life you always wanted to live, tempered by the wisdom you have gained through your experiences.

You Can Heal Your Life - Deserving
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You Can Heal Your Life - Deserving

Let's expand on the last post "Prosperity" from the book You Can Heal Your Life. Deserving If we do not accept the idea that we "deserve" to prosper, then even when abundance falls in our laps, we will refuse it somehow. Whatever we concentrate on increases, so don't concentrate on your bills. If you concentrate on lack and debt, then you will create more lack and debt. ---> In essence this is appreciating what you DO have, regardless of how minuscule you may think it is.

Love & Valentines Day: Relationship Compassion
Flowers, candy and back rubs don't mean a thing without compassion!
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30 Ways To Be A More Compassionate Partner

Concepts like love, understanding, and kindness are so important to couples. But here's a relationship buzzword you may not have considered: Compassion! In the spirit of Valentine's Day, here are 30 ways to be a more compassionate partner.

Will Questions Raise Your Awareness?
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Will Questions Raise Your Awareness?

One way to understand the meaning of your life is through questions. It activates not only your mind, but your intuition when you respond to thought provoking questions. These questions also help you become aware of how you really feel about something in  your life. The more honest you are with yourself, the more powerful the insights. I invite you to take this very short survey and see what awareness you gain from the exercise. Click here to take survey Thank you for your time and interest.

The Secret To Mr Rights Heart
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The Secret To Mr Rights Heart

Does Love always seem to pass you by? Have you met a guy before put your all in to the relationship in return to just find out they don't feel the same about you?   You find yourself guarded and jaded by the word Love because so many times your heart has felt the emotion of the greatest feeling in the world but the guy your with never seems to feel the same way. Tired of kissing frogs and ready to finely meet the man of your dreams? Ready to have that mutual spark and find a guy that will share the emotion of Love in his heart also?

Lesbians: Stop Processing & Save Your Relationship!
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Lesbians: Stop Processing & Save Your Relationship!

Years ago, I was madly in love with a woman I’ll call Sarah. The first time I went to her house, I was won over by the huge unabridged dictionary that had a permanent home on her dining room table. When she took me to a raptor center, and then to see a rainbow out over a field of sunflowers at dusk, I knew she was the woman for me. It also didn’t hurt that Sarah was one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen, in a butch/tomboi kind of way.

Lesbians: Take Your Finger Off That Trigger!
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Lesbians: Take Your Finger Off That Trigger!

We all know that fighting hurts our relationships - yet endless hours of "processing" can be just as bad. So what's a couple to do? No one really believes that responding to conflict by yelling, storming out, giving each other the “silent treatment,” or trying to stuff our feelings down is a good idea (though sometimes it's all we know how to do.) Obviously, direct communication seems like a much better alternative – and since lesbians and queer women care a great deal about our relationships, many of us have worked very hard to learn to nam

Couple going over finances
Love should make you feel lightheaded with joy, not frustration.
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Put Down The Gauntlet And Stop Fighting Over Money

Those potentially fight-provoking feelings that arise from making more money than your man have become increasingly common in the years since (especially now that women are the primary or sole source of income for more than 40 percent of U.S. households). But they’re no less complicated.

Dating Coach: Dating Advice For Alpha-Females
He aimed to please...at first.
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The Downsides Of Dating An Alpha-Male

Do your relationships with alpha-males often fail? If so, you may need a change of pace. Dating coach Jonathon Aslay explains the downside of dating an alpha-male and introduces a new type of man, "The Blender". Read on to see if dating a "Blender" is the right move for you.

Relationship Expert: Are You Bullying Your Family?
You've got great intentions, but are you going about it all wrong?
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Are You A Bully & Don't Even Know It?

We're constantly telling our kids to defend themselves against bullies. But are we modeling less-than-ideal behavior? Relationship expert Rhona Berens explains why your relationship with your spouse just might make you the biggest bully on the block.