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RECESSIONWIRE

Unemployed Libido

Unemployment Good For Libido, If Nothing Else

Do unemployed girls do it better? Or is it a case of just wanting it more?

If I'm any example, my layoff has sent my libido to frenzied new heights: The desire for humpin' and bumpin' didn't start the minute I lost my job. Like most over-achieving, over-educated, Type-A people, I had been told my whole life that the world was my pearl-stuffed oyster. I'd been informed that hard work and determination would take me far. So I had every reason to believe my current status as a jobless American would only be temporary. I would beat the odds.

Cooking For Love

Cheap Date Idea: Cook From Scratch (You Can Do It)

The way to his heart is through his stomach. Short on funds? Ten tips for cooking on the cheap.

The way to his heart is through his stomach. Short on funds? Ten tips for cooking on the cheap. "When it became necessary to cut back on my expenses, I was already cooking a few basic dinners a week. Now I take lunch to work, do takeout even less and watch my ingredient costs. Right now a lot of people are considering cooking to save money, and I'm pretty sure many are in the same boat as I was: starting from scratch skills-wise and cursed with a rarefied palate from so much eating out. Here are ten tips I learned along the way."

Recession Dating Realities

Recession Dating Realities—Things Have Changed

What you're going to have to accept while living and loving in the time of recession.

Okay all you lovers out there, so what do you know about dating, living and loving in the recession? Things have changed—not least in the way you appreciate your mate. After the jump, some of the new realities that have emerged in these tough times.

Cheap Sex

The Broke Person's Guide To Romance

The economy's bad but don't let it suck the pleasure from your love life.

I wouldn't go out with a guy who refused to spend resources—time, energy, effort or money—on our date. It's not about the ka-ching. It's about value. I deserve a life filled with excitement, happiness and sexual richness regardless of mine or my lover's bank account balance. In case you want the same, I enlisted a few friends and fellow writers of the sexy stuff to provide tips that pump up the heat without pushing out a lot of cash.

Piggybank

A Layoff Is A Lot Like A Breakup

Healing after being laid off can involve the same steps as getting over an ex.

Healing after being laid off can involve the same steps as getting over an ex. It's been a month since my husband Marco's ex-firm broke up with him. And, like a romantic breakup, it takes time to heal—for us both.

Man in apron cooking

Gender Roles Reversed: Stay-At-Home Husband

The recession allows one husband to stay home and care for his pregnant wife.

As I watched them work, I felt a thousand miles away from my staff job, and a million miles away from business as I knew it. It wasn't just a gender thing; I was seeing physical evidence of that tectonic shift we've all been reading about for years. The corporate office as safe haven from domestic reality is finally dying. Here are my pregnant wife and her friend, a newly single mom, venturing forth together into the wide world on the deck of a new business model. No doubt about it: this is Oz territory.

love dating relationship news

Love Bytes: 3 Ways To Improve Your Relationship

Improving your relationship, silver divorce and commitment dealbreakers.

Love Bytes: Five must-click sex, love and relationship links. Improving your relationship, silver divorce and commitment dealbreakers.

love dating relationship news

Love Bytes: Ways Not To Pay On A Date

How to avoid paying on a date, what bikini waxes reveal and talking about money.

Love Bytes: three must-click sex, love and relationship links. How not to pay, what bikini waxes reveal, and talking about money.

love, sex, dating, relationships

Love Bytes: Rules For Cheating

What counts as cheating, why do women love Adam Lambert, and men in aprons.

Love Bytes: three must click sex, dating and relationship links. What counts as cheating, why do women love Adam Lambert, and men in aprons.

To Reproduce Or Not To Reproduce

To Reproduce Or Not To Reproduce

The pros and cons of having kids during the recession.

"The economy’s so bad we had to lay off one of our kids," comedian Jonathan Katz recently joked. Pretty funny. And absurd. But what about laying off the stork? Now there’s an idea…