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The One Problem With Being His F%@K Buddy

The One Problem With Being His F%@K Buddy

"How in the hell did this happen when all I wanted was sex?" You have this one hormone to thank.

Well first let's define F%&! Buddy. According to Urbandictionary.com definition numero 6. (The explanation our relationship coaches liked most) breaks it down pretty clear: F%@K Buddy: All the benefits of having a relationship minus the bullshit like acting interested in Every Word He Says, trying to sleep through mega-hertz snores, feeling like shit when he can't use a calendar to remem

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How Long Does Sex Take? [VIDEO]

3 minutes? 2 hours? Exactly how long does the average sex session take?

From marathon sex sessions to short and sweet quickies, sexual intercourse can pretty much last any amount of time. But how long does the average sex session take? The answer may surprise and disappoint you!

Men Really Like Morning Sex

Men Really Like Morning Sex

Having spontaneous, morning intimacy is a real treat for guys.

There's nothing like an unexpected episode of morning sex to get the off to a start. A guy feels like he can accomplish just about anything if he starts his day with a quick shag. And the morning erection that such spontaneous sex is not deviant but part of a some master plan. It doesn't have to be a crazy roll in the hay either, a quickie is just fine and dandy.

How To Have Sex In Public

How To Have Sex In Public

A guide to quickies outdoors or in a bar can be quite fun.

Seventy percent of both women and men fantasize about it. Some are turned on by the risk of getting caught; others simply want the novelty of taking the bedroom show on the road. You may want a springtime romp in a field of flowers or a quickie in a bar bathroom, but in the end, sex in public—like real estate—is all about one thing: location location location.

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Study: Quick Sex Is Best

A study suggests that over 13 minutes is too long.

A study conducted by the Journal of Sexual Medicine suggests that the ideal length for a bout of intercourse is 7 - 13 minutes. And most people find sex greater than 13 minutes to be bothersome. This basically makes ever song ever written false. We're not sure who to believe any more.

Privacy, Please! We're Having Sex In Here

The ACLU fights for your right to party in the potty.

It’s tough finding a nice, clean quasi-private stall for a quickie these days. Luckily, the American Civil Liberties Union wants to help you, and Larry Craig, to make sure what happens in your stall… (pause for overused Vegas catch phrase here) stays your stall. As reported in the New York Post, the ACLU argues that people who have sex in public bathrooms have an expectation of privacy, backing Craig and filing a brief on his behalf. The short answer: The state cannot prove that Craig was inviting an undercover officer to have sex in public and he could be off the hook. What do you think? Is sex in a public restroom considered private when it’s behind the swinging door? Add your thoughts below.

The Joy Of The Quickie

The Joy Of The Quickie

The benefits of a fast one.

Fast doesn't always mean bad; counsels expert Dr. Pepper Schwartz. While wonderful; sometimes tender lovemaking can be touched with a little ennui. Quickies can be the perfect(ly intimate) solution to showing just how desirable your partner is to you.