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His Good Looks Took Me Bad Places

His Good Looks Took Me Bad Places

When you fall for Mr. Right, he should actually BE right. Looks can be oh so deceiving..

Last November after my second break up in five years, I made the grave mistake of attempting to jump right back into the dating market.  Old habits die hard; I have been perpetually in relationships since the age of 16, and I am now 27.  That's a long timeframe of codependency, embarassing to admit, but I've grown from the acknowledgement of my mistake.  Once I was burned and ditched for his high school flame, I allowed myself to spend a weekend in a self pity party so depressing that I was close to pulling a Joseph Gordon-Levitt in 500 Days of Summe

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He Wined And Dined Me... Just For Sex?

How one woman was blindsided by what she thought was a potential relationship.

I was expecting a sickly sweet romance and instead I got a fire-breathing hell boy. Let me explain.

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8 Love Tips From Mommy Bloggers

Mom knows best, so we polled mommy bloggers for their best love and relationship tips and advice.

Mom probably knows a thing or two about love, too—he's teasing you, because he has a crush on you; you're not in love, you're fourteen! Flowers are a way to a gal's heart. Here, 8 mommy bloggers lend some advice.

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Dating Disaster: A Guy, A Girl, Her Gas

One woman's cautionary tale of what not to eat before a first date.

I met Philip while out recruiting contestants for Blind Date. Once he told me he went to Vassar, I knew he'd never do the show. Instead, I kept him for myself. I looked extra cute and Philip seemed really into me. It was perfect. Well, almost. That morning, I had accidentally eaten some bad pineapple. Having never dealt with bad fruit toots, I didn't know what to expect from my Hawaiian friend. Looking at me you'd have never guessed the turmoil I was experiencing, but internally it was a dating disaster in the making.

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8 Bad Bar Behaviors To Avoid

What not to do if you want to snag a date at the bar.

As a wise man once told me, there’s not much a woman can do to make herself completely unappealing to every guy at a bar.

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Dating Red Flags: 5 Signs He's A Control Freak

Red flag warning! Are you dating a control freak?

At first it might have been charming: he orders for you on dates, wards off creepy guys at the bar, wants to protect you. What girl doesn't like being taken care of? But there's a thin line between wanting what's best for you and deciding what's best for you. Here are 5 signs the man you're dating is a control freak.

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The Bedroom: Playing Nice Isn't Always Best

Nice sex doesn't necessarily mean good sex; how one woman couldn't settle for Mr. Nice.

Mike was smart, interesting and nice ... too nice when we slept together for the first time. There had been no throwdown, no frantic disrobing, no moaning loud enough to wake the neighbors, no playfulness. Instead, there was soft music playing in the background, gentle kisses on my eyelids, careful caressing, uncomfortable, unwavering eye contact, and ... Oh, God, is he making love to me?

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Some Men Have More Love To Give

Picking a love interest can be a tough decision.

One girl wants to know: Can a guy like two girls at once? Or do his flirtations mean nothing?

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Why "Put Yourself Out There" Is Bad Dating Advice

Why this unsolicited piece of advice is useless to singles.

As is the plight of many a single woman with friends who have settled down, Cecilia has been getting plenty of unsolicited advice about how she can meet Mr. Right. One of the most common pieces of advice? "Put yourself out there!" Cecilia and I share a mutual loathing for this particular phrase.