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Can you imagine slaughtering an animal that is so important to so many people?

Therapy Animals: Companions or Consumption? [EXPERT]

The greatness of a nation can be judged by the way its animals are treated. -Mahatma Gandhi

On November 18, 2011, it became legal to slaughter American horses for human consumption in the United States. What?! Americans don’t eat horses. We ride them, groom them, love them, use them in therapy, and make movies about them. Imagine sitting through two hours of War Horse, only to watch "Joey" get slaughtered after his brave and heroic service. Unthinkable? Think again.

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Why I Believe In Natural Family Planning

Despite what critics say, Natural Family Planning can be good for your marriage.

If you've heard the term Natural Family Planning (NFP), it's probably almost a certainty actually, that you were given some bad information about it. As someone who has practiced NFP with my wife for around six years, I know I've heard more than my fair share of misguidance from family, the media and even priests. Sometimes it's honest confusion or simply a passing along of misinformation, but other times it's a blatant attack on a somewhat mysterious practice that many in our culture chalk up to some form of crazy desire for 20 kids or an exercise in Pope-worshiping. Despite what critics say, Natural Family Planning can be good for your marriage.

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Are Men Today Really Irresponsible, Overgrown Adolescents?

One woman's defense of modern men: surely they aren't all as derelict as media leads us to believe?

If you were to scan the news headlines over the past few months, the primary message you would glean about men in America would be this: They are failing. Failing to become adults; failing to be financially independent; failing as fathers; failing as husbands. It’s enough to make a girl like myself throw her hands up in the air and vow to be single for the rest of her life. Yet, the more I read, the more I start to wonder: whose standards are we going by here? And what if all these statistics about men in their 20’s and 30’s living lives of self-indulgent abandon, delaying marriage, and being neglectful fathers aren’t nearly as black and white as they seem? What if there’s more going on beneath the surface, and what about all the men who don’t fall into those categories? The ones who are involved fathers, devoted husbands, and successful career men. Isn’t it high time we gave them a little bit of press?

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Poll: Would You Date Someone Accused Of Murder?

Casey Anthony is going to be a free woman. Would you date a person with a similar past?

The controversial verdict is in, folks. After over 30 days of testimony and just under 11 hours of deliberation, Casey Anthony was found not guilty of murdering her 2-year-old daughter, Caylee.

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Do We Hold Men To Impossibly High Standards?

Women today want a rich, handsome man who's a sex god and Mr. Mom. Do we expect too much?

So, behold. This is the male ideal: We have ideas "in American culture about what a 'real man' is and does. You know: strong, competitive, dominant, wealthy, good at fixing machinery, lots of sexual partners, enjoys sports... Guys? Listen up. The world is telling you to turn yourself into a unicorn and start shitting diamonds... You will never, ever be man enough. So stop giving a damn."

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Do Democrats Have More Sex Scandals Than Republicans?

Which political party gets into the most sexy trouble? Democrats or Republicans?

But it begs the question, why are Republicans winning this awful race? If you ask a Republican, they might say that Republicans are targeted by the media. If you ask a Democrat they might say that Republicans, who are known for touting a line of "family values" are hypocrites. I know one Republican who thinks that Republican politicians are simply set up. The answer it seems, is as divisive as the politics.

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Why I Think Kim Kardashian's Quick Engagement Is A Good Thing

One writer defends Kim Kardashian's decision to marry just six months into dating Kris Humphries.

Kim Kardashian is catching a lot of flack for her engagement to Kris Humphries, considering her penchant for athlete boyfriends, just six months of dating and that 20-carat rock now strapped to her left ring finger. I've already heard nonsense rumors that this move is just a publicity stunt, and grumblings about the potential union failing before it even begins. Now, I am an admitted cynic. I would have no problem calling out Ms. Kardashian for a less-than wise dating decision, but I'm halting the criticism.

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6 Summer Fashions You Should Never Wear On A Date

Avoid these fashions don'ts while choosing clothes for your Memorial Day and summer dates.

I'm sure y'all are anxiously awaiting the long Memorial Day weekend. Perhaps for a big date? Or maybe just a low-key outing with your S.O. and some friends? Either way, you're going to have to wear some clothing for each fine event. And if you're anything like me, you'll spend an hour staring into your closet, completely bewildered, while trying to decide. However, I can help you out just a bit. Here are seven looks you can leave in your closet this weekend. (Actually, to be clear, I'll just say it: Never wear these on a date!)

First love forever?

First love forever?

Just a quick on-Can first loves can last? or is life experiance needed before you can find "the one"

So what does everybody think? I know people who have been together since being 14, and are still very happy, others are more cynical and believe that you need to have more experiances in life before you can know what you are looking for. Thoughts?

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10 Ways Men's Turn-Ons Change As They Age

More than 60 percent of men say the female qualities that turn them on change with age.

YourTango, along with Glo.com and Chemistry.com, conducted a massive survey of more than 20,000 men and women on one simple, yet essential, topic: the power of attraction. We found that even if a couple's heat index waxes and wanes over time, 90 percent believe it can be rekindled long-term. And as for that age-old stigma about complacency in our comfortable relationships? Guys cited "lack of romantic love" as the single greatest turn-off as they age. So, it's more important than we all thought.

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What Men Secretly Think About Bright Lipstick

Do men like the bold, bright lipstick trend for the spring season?

Bold lips were all over the spring runways. Red, orange, fuchsia, watermelon—you name it, that lipstick color was probably present. In fact, it was one of my favorite looks for the season. Now, I may not be taking the bright-orange lipstick leap, but I'm also not necessarily opposed to injecting a little bit of high fashion into my beauty routine. It's fun to work a smoldering red pout or statement deep pink now and then, right? Well, I think so, but I wondered if guys would be quite as crazy about this bold beauty trend. So, I asked a few.